I’ve also tried casting my net in places other than adult entertainment venues, but once things turned into that kind of relationship, they’d all say, “I don’t need any money,” so it never really became anything like papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). In adult entertainment, that’s just how things naturally work. At hostess clubs, it was fine to give them the full standard fee. Their take-home pay was usually about half, and since it was a high-end establishment, they only saw two or three customers a day.
I’ve never worked in the nightlife hostess scene myself, but my boss used to recruit women through members-only salons and places like that, saying something along the lines of, “This is how I usually do things. Contact me if you’re interested.” Either way, I think it’s easier to create a path toward monetization by starting with adult entertainment or related apps rather than something completely general.
As for the secret to making it last, if you’re going for a no-sex, rip-them-off strategy, I feel you’d be better off joining a Ginza club and learning the ropes. The clientele is suited to that style, and the established etiquette makes it easier to see a stable path forward—like working hard in sumo until you gain a personal sponsor.
If you’re aiming for more of a dating-club arrangement, then honestly, doesn’t it come down to whether you’re willing to have sex? Fundamentally, I think that’s what most men are after. Compatibility aside, women who can become fully immersed during sex are unquestionably valued highly. For example, when she moves her hips to meet the thrusts during missionary. So when you’re having sex with a man you think could be “the one,” I hope you’ll focus on pursuing your own pleasure.
I actually just parted ways with a woman who was perfect in every way except in bed...
That’s all from the front lines, lol.
Taro
