I don’t travel for work very often, but I’ll be going on a business trip soon. I offered to meet a woman at my destination (dating type C) for the first time, and fortunately, we’ll be meeting soon.
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I’ve booked a city hotel in town, as well as a private dining room at a restaurant that suits her tastes.
Perhaps because I’m naturally a worrier, I’m feeling a little anxious about whether I’ll make any mistakes in an unfamiliar place.
Is there anything I should keep in mind when meeting my partner for the first time while on a business trip?
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Since it’s a long-distance situation, will you be able to stay in proper contact with your date through Letter Date? ( ˙꒳˙ )???
Even if something comes up, I think it’ll be okay if you can say something like, “Sorry, I’m just not used to this place…” That way, even if you make some kind of mistake, it should be fine (*´`)♡
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If you’re traveling for work, you don’t have to worry about what to do if a woman cancels at the last minute.
I probably shouldn’t mention this here since the women might find out（笑）
(They might not like this system, though＞＜)
You can pay to reserve another woman as a backup.
In other words, even if the first woman cancels at the last minute, you can still meet the other one, so you can meet a woman on your business trip with almost complete certainty. (It’s highly unlikely that both would cancel.)
Ask the club staff for more details. Actually, once they know you’re traveling for work, I would expect the staff to suggest reserving another woman as a backup, just in case.
Do they not do that anymore?
Sorry if this system has quietly been discontinued without my knowing.
> If there’s anything I should be careful about when meeting my partner for the first time at my business-trip destination, please let me know.
With dating type C, there’s about a 50% chance that she’ll agree to an adult relationship (intimate) after dinner. I think you should properly expect that she may turn you down.
It’s a little concerning that, despite calling yourself a worrier, you don’t seem to be worried about that possibility.
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A mistake or two is no big deal. Hopefully, she’ll be understanding and won’t worry about things like that.
Why worry about it now? The thing you should be concerned about is your work. Things with women will work themselves out. You’re not planning to marry her, are you?
It’ll be fine. Somehow, things will work out.
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Since everyone has already shared a variety of opinions, I’d like to offer a slightly different perspective.
You mentioned that you don’t travel for work very often, so I’m assuming this would basically be a one-time meeting or something that happens very infrequently, rather than a long-term arrangement.
I suppose it depends on the woman, but I feel that many women are generally looking for a long-term relationship. So if you bring up how infrequently you travel, some of them may lose interest from the outset.
In that case, even if she’s a Type C and you hit it off, she may not agree to an adult relationship unless she’s exceptionally interested in you.
I can’t speak for women, but unless the allowance is extremely generous, I’m not sure how many would go out of their way to have what amounts to a one-night arrangement.
There’s no point in lying, but going forward, it might be better to say that you’ll be traveling regularly or that you could invite her to your area. If you seem to click with someone, I think it’s worth discussing those possibilities.
I also see someone when I’m traveling for work, and she was concerned about that aspect as well, so I thought I’d offer this comment out of concern.
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The less familiar I am with an area, the more thoroughly I research it beforehand.
In particular, I check the route from the restaurant to the hotel.
For example, I arrive more than an hour early and actually walk around the area.
Once we’ve had an adult relationship (intimate) at the hotel, we’re usually more comfortable with each other, so it’s fun to have them tell me about the area.
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Of course, the more beautiful and appealing someone is, the more nervous you’ll feel meeting them.
You may even make mistakes you normally wouldn’t, or take a wrong turn.
For an after-date, keep walking to a minimum and make sure you have plenty of time and breathing room. Rather than trying to do too much, prepare one standout element and focus on that. Plan things with enough time and flexibility—both in your schedule and otherwise—so you can stay calm even if a few minor mistakes happen.
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As for the restaurant, that’s up to you, but I think it’s worth choosing a nice hotel. If the city has a Ritz or Marriott, I’d go there without hesitation. Ideally, the room should be at least 35 square meters, with a separate bathroom and toilet. It may be expensive, but if it’s a business trip that doesn’t happen often, you might as well splurge. Just that alone should earn you one or two extra “yaku,” so to speak, in mahjong.
When you’re somewhere you’re unfamiliar with, unexpected things can happen. Thoroughly researching everything in advance is one option, but perfection is impossible, so I think it’s fairly important to accept beforehand that things may not go exactly as planned.
Also, the most important thing is your relationship with your companion. No matter how poorly the arrangements go, or how disappointing the restaurant or hotel turns out to be, if you’re on the same wavelength and in step with each other, and you both genuinely care about one another, the relationship won’t fall apart. In fact, it may become a wonderful memory you can laugh about and reminisce over later. Ah, but you’re not some teenage potato boy, so I’m sure that goes without saying. Sorry for going on at length out of concern.
I hope everything goes well.
Taro
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I think it’s a good idea to check out an unfamiliar place in advance so you don’t make a mistake, or simply ask the woman for guidance.
That’s what I do.
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