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Apr 11, 2022 23:39
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I’m also a member in my 30s from Sapporo, and it will soon be a month since I registered. It took two weeks after signing up before I finally received my first offer. I met a very nice person and was able to start seeing him, but that is still the only offer I’ve received.
When no offers come in soon after joining, it’s easy to feel rushed and anxious that even fewer will come in from now on. Still, I’m taking various answers about offers in the Q&A section as reference and waiting patiently.
Waiting is hard, and I sometimes struggle with whether I should update my comments frequently or regularly post selfies. But I’m planning to keep going with moderate updates, taking everyone’s advice into account.
There are others here in the same situation, so let’s hang in there and keep trying patiently.
3 answers
Other
The gentleman reading this right now after searching “Sapporo, 30s” may well be looking for you, too—if you’re appealing, you’ll receive offers.
And if you’ve already found someone wonderful, I’d suggest cherishing that relationship.
Other
Even though you’ve “met someone really great and started dating,” you still want to meet new people, huh?
If you have a target income, you should just say so during the interview. Or if the issue is how often you meet, shouldn’t you talk to that man about it first? I feel sorry for the man who made you an offer.
In the end, isn’t it all about whether you can keep that man around and cultivate the relationship? You casually mention deciding whether to renew, but are you serious? I think it’s quite a gamble.
I’m hardly a saint—and since we’re fellow scumbags in that respect, I’ll give you some advice: I think you’d be better off coming up with a shrewd strategy. There are ways to fight even when you don’t have much going for you. I think you’d be better off coming up with a shrewd strategy.
Good luck. I can’t really help, but I may be rooting for you in my heart.
Taro
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
There aren’t many people in their 30s, are there?
I liked your private photos. You seem really nice.
You’re beautiful. If you’re coming to Sapporo on business, please feel free to reach out.