I’ve filled out the post-date survey every time since joining, but recently the club has started kindly contacting me to thank me for cooperating with the surveys.
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The two men who recently made me offers are, no offense, among the more questionable people I’ve met so far. Is the club contacting me after the survey to thank me and tell me not to hesitate to reach out if anything comes up because they’re the type of people who might cause issues?
Or have they simply changed their policy?
Maezawa here.
I can’t say for sure without knowing the names of the men in question, but I think the club may have changed its policy.
I’d occasionally heard that some branches would respond properly, while others wouldn’t reply at all. So perhaps this branch decided that they should start responding more consistently too.
That said, when a man is questionable—or when we’ve received several negative reports from other women—we sometimes send a message along the lines of, “Please don’t hesitate to contact the club if anything comes up,” because the woman may simply feel unable to bring it up herself.
Sorry for the vague answer, but if you go on another date and nothing comes through afterward, I’d assume those two men had received negative feedback.
On the other hand, if you get another message saying something like, “Please don’t hesitate to contact us,” then I think it probably means the club has changed its policy.
(I highly doubt you happened to be matched with three men in a row who had received negative feedback.)
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