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Oct 24, 2021 19:20
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Shingo Lee
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I’m columnist Shingo Lee (Shingori).
Feelings like:
“I’m jealous,”
“I hate them,”
“I can’t stand them,”
“It’s all their fault…”
will never bring you even the slightest benefit.
When something unpleasant happens, make a personal rule so you won’t go through the same thing again.
For example, if you lent money to A-chan and never got it back, make a rule: “I won’t lend money anymore.”
After writing down the rule, stand in front of the toilet, say, “Goodbye, A-chan,” while facing the bowl, and flush.
Erase A-chan from your world.
フラグメーカー
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Column
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
I’m also often overwhelmed by negative feelings, but I don’t think that makes me a bad person. My good sides and bad sides are all important parts of who I am.
🏅 手コキ評論家
入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Joe, a male member.
Take it from me and try running 5 km in the morning and another 5 km at night.
At first, it’s fine to go only a little faster than walking, and you don’t have to worry too much about the distance. If you run 300 km a month, you’ll have less time to overthink things.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
I think the best thing would be to change your living environment.
First of all, I think you should create a life where you don’t have to think things like, “I hate them” or “I resent them.”
“You’re making me become an increasingly worse person.”
Just like a politician, haha.
Maybe politics really is the right fit for you.
綾瀬なな
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Other
I’m Nana Ayase ♡
As everyone has said, you shouldn’t push yourself too hard.
Especially as the days get shorter, it’s easier to feel depressed, so try not to dwell on things too much.
茉莉花
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Only meet people you genuinely like.
Sticking to that will probably help you feel more emotionally stable.
Marika
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
I’ve heard that working in the nightlife industry for a long time can take a toll on your mental health.
I think papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) can affect you the same way, depending on what kind of men you meet.
I recommend taking things at your own pace and not pushing yourself too hard.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I think it’s best not to force yourself to meet men like that.