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Oct 24, 2021 19:20
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I’m columnist Shingo Lee (Shingori).
Feelings like:
“I’m jealous,”
“I hate them,”
“I can’t stand them,”
“It’s all their fault…”
will never bring you even the slightest benefit.
When something unpleasant happens, make a personal rule so you won’t go through the same thing again.
For example, if you lent money to A-chan and never got it back, make a rule: “I won’t lend money anymore.”
After writing down the rule, stand in front of the toilet, say, “Goodbye, A-chan,” while facing the bowl, and flush.
Erase A-chan from your world.
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
I’m also often overwhelmed by negative feelings, but I don’t think that makes me a bad person. My good sides and bad sides are all important parts of who I am.
🏅 手コキ評論家
入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Joe, a male member.
Take it from me and try running 5 km in the morning and another 5 km at night.
At first, it’s fine to go only a little faster than walking, and you don’t have to worry too much about the distance. If you run 300 km a month, you’ll have less time to overthink things.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
I think the best thing would be to change your living environment.
First of all, I think you should create a life where you don’t have to think things like, “I hate them” or “I resent them.”
“You’re making me become an increasingly worse person.”
Just like a politician, haha.
Maybe politics really is the right fit for you.
Other
I’m Nana Ayase ♡
As everyone has said, you shouldn’t push yourself too hard.
Especially as the days get shorter, it’s easier to feel depressed, so try not to dwell on things too much.
Other
Only meet people you genuinely like.
Sticking to that will probably help you feel more emotionally stable.
Marika
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
I’ve heard that working in the nightlife industry for a long time can take a toll on your mental health.
I think papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) can affect you the same way, depending on what kind of men you meet.
I recommend taking things at your own pace and not pushing yourself too hard.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I think it’s best not to force yourself to meet men like that.