I couldn’t stand the sexual harassment at work, so I told my papa that I wanted to change jobs despite the current situation. He then asked if I’d like to work for his company. I’m torn between accepting his offer and finding a job on my own.
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I also have another generous supporter, and there’s a chance he’ll find out that my claims about being devoted to him were a lie. Since our days off would be the same, I might end up going on more overnight dates with my papa and find it harder to spend time with people my own age. I’m also worried that people at the new workplace might spread strange rumors about me, leaving me isolated.
I don’t think changing jobs and finding a good workplace will be easy in the current climate, and the terms are extremely attractive. What do you think?
Does the fact that he asked me to work for him mean that he sees me as someone he wants in his life for the long term?
I’d appreciate your advice.
I’m Tetsu, a male member.
Are you serious? If you went to work for your papa’s company, your quality of life would almost certainly get worse. The only thing that would change is who sexually harasses you—it would be your papa instead. He could call you in even during working hours, and despite that, your salary might end up including your allowance. In the end, you could wind up with a much heavier emotional burden without actually making any more money. And what would you do if he got tired of you and made it difficult for you to stay at the company?
The papa who suggested you work for his company after you consulted him, as the owner, about the sexual harassment also seems questionable to me. If he were genuinely thinking about your well-being, I feel he would first advise you on how to collect evidence, where to seek help, and what solutions were available.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
The good thing about papa-katsu within the framework of a dating club is that you can maintain a relationship where you’re neither too close nor too distant.
If you become too dependent, you have to be prepared to make sacrifices accordingly. When you look at it that way, it seems more beneficial not to become overly dependent.
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Maezawa from the President’s Office here—I’ll answer as well.
Thank you for your question.
> I’m worried they might find out that I have another generous (well-paying) papa and that I was lying when I said I was devoted to him.
I think they probably will find out.
> Since our days off would be the same, we’d end up going on more overnight dates, making it harder to spend time with people my own age.
I think that’s likely to happen.
> I might also become the subject of strange rumors at that workplace and end up feeling isolated.
If there are women working there, I think they’ll notice right away. Once even one person catches on, it’s easy to imagine how uncomfortable it would become.
It seems like the disadvantages would outweigh the benefits, so even if it’s difficult, I think you’d be better off finding someone on your own.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
The man himself may think he’s taking the long view, but wanting to hire a mistress is the height of foolishness. From a third party’s perspective, it’s fair to say he isn’t thinking things through at all.
That said, I could understand it if he planned to set up a separate company through a new business venture specifically for you.
As for the sexual harassment, if you’re open to changing jobs, I think you should quietly start looking while reporting the matter to your company’s HR department or management. If the harassment is coming from the company president, you could consult a lawyer through a free legal consultation, and once you’ve decided to quit, send a certified legal notice and seek compensation for damages.
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