I honestly don’t understand why they call it “dating” in the first place.
I don’t understand the point of being in a relationship either… whether you’re the one saying it or the one being told that…
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It does sound like a gentle way of putting pressure on you—or setting expectations—that he won’t give any more than that.
I’ve never met anyone who said something like that, so I can’t really say for sure, though…
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You’re overthinking it. If they say that again, try asking them with a straight face, “Why would you say something like that??”
They’ll probably look at you puzzled and say, “Huh??”
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You’re overthinking it.
He probably knows that other men offer more, and that you’re worth that much. Ideally, he’d like to offer you the same, but his income is limited, so he simply can’t. That amount is the most he can afford.
Naturally, he’s aware that his allowance is low, so he understands that you may decide continuing the arrangement isn’t possible.
You’re the one who gets to choose, so just decide normally whether you want to continue seeing him.
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I don’t think he means, “You just have to put up with it”…
It’s probably just a humble expression, like saying, “It’s nothing special,” when giving someone a small gift. I don’t think there’s any deeper meaning to it.
Try not to overthink it, and I hope you two can continue seeing each other comfortably!
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You probably don’t actually feel sorry, but I don’t think you’re saying, “This is all you’re worth, so put up with it,” either.
It sounds like you’ve become a little cynical.
If you’re dissatisfied, you can simply choose not to continue seeing them.
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