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Nov 19, 2021 05:30
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I’m the mistress of a man in his 70s.
He is such a wonderful man that he could easily maintain relationships with multiple women, but he has chosen to devote himself solely to me and has treated me kindly, without change, for many years.
I have absolutely no reason to doubt him or feel insecure—I can confidently say that he is devoted only to me.
He constantly surrounds me with his tremendous kindness and the sense of security he provides, allowing me to live without any hardship. So when he grows older and can no longer do anything for himself, I intend to support him. I plan to remain devoted to him and stay by his side for the rest of our lives.
The expensive gifts he has given me will remain in my possession as cherished memories of our love, but sometimes I feel anxious, wondering how I will go on living if he leaves this world before I do.
I don’t think I could ever meet anyone better than him.
I often find myself seeing parallels between the Kato couple and my own situation.
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I’m Nana Ayase ♡
Do you really have to have a partner forever?
Women are strong. It may feel lonely at first, but even when you’re on your own, you’ll find a way to manage. Don’t be so pessimistic.
Also, someone else’s life and your own life are completely different, so don’t get the wrong idea.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
First of all, Ayana may be wealthier than Cha because she comes from a well-off family.
If you have lots of female friends, you probably won’t feel lonely at all. Take up plenty of hobbies and enjoy life while cherishing the memory of the person who passed away.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m the loser guy among the male members.
Thanks for this excellent question—it’s especially appreciated by someone who’s always getting roasted.
Since I’m well aware that women may have these kinds of concerns, I’m helping my absolute favorite girl—my ace—find a husband. For my next-in-line ace, I’m drilling her in business skills so she can become independent. I’ve even hired lawyers to resolve personal troubles for women I’m seeing. I’ve also lent out a large sum of money, only to have the borrower disappear.
I even pressure the club to help the women I’m seeing find multiple good papas, saying things like:
“I’d really like you to introduce this girl to ○○. Girls this wonderful are hard to find, so I’m sure it would benefit Universe too.”
I’ve gone so far as to do completely outrageous and extremely bothersome things like that. (I’m truly sorry to the club staff m(__)m)
I believe that looking out for the future of the women who’ve been good to me and taking steps in advance is one of a papa’s most important responsibilities. But my actions are summarily dismissed as “creepy” or “self-righteous” (lol).
Still, whether people call it creepy or hypocrisy, I believe that doing hypocritical good is better than doing no good at all. I’ll simply keep moving forward on the path I believe in.
There’s a famous saying:
“The masses are always wrong.”
But I’m a born contrarian, so the more directly or indirectly people in the Q&A box or other respondents tell me, “Loser guy, that’s not right,” the more I end up thinking, “That means I must be right.” ♡
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
Honestly, I don’t think you can leave them with anything.
It might be a good idea to start building shared interests or hobbies together now—things they can still enjoy even after their partner passes away.