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Nov 19, 2021 00:00
8 answers
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here as well.
I’m not sure what level of “generous papa” we’re talking about, but if you’ve reached the point of thinking, “This papa is overprotective and seems like a hassle,” then I think you probably feel the allowance is too low.
If the allowance were truly substantial, I don’t think you’d feel that way.
Also, when someone talks about things they merely “feel,” it seems like all you can really say is:
“Yeah, I know what you mean.”
or
“Not really.”
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
I think it’s perfectly normal for the price of a service to reflect what it includes. On the other hand, wouldn’t it be scary if someone just transferred you a huge amount of money out of the blue?
Other
If he’s giving you that much, it’s pretty hard to expect him not to have any say.
Whatever the arrangement, there’s always some degree of give and take.
You may think your youthful charm is enough, but men are people with feelings too.
Akari
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
The person asking this question is overthinking things before even getting started, which makes it unnecessarily complicated.
If you receive plenty of offers, you’ll be in a position to choose and simply won’t have to date men you dislike.
If you don’t get many offers, you won’t have much choice, so I assume you continue despite putting up with a certain amount of frustration, even when the men are troublesome or overly intrusive.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
- Contact once a week or so
- Meet no more than twice a month (and sometimes not at all)
- Occasionally introduces her to an ultra-high-spec, handsome young man, then leaves her to it afterward
- Never goes near the woman’s home or usual haunts, and absolutely never walks around town with her
- ¥100,000+ per month
If you had a papa (a male supporter) like this and still called him overbearing or a hassle, wouldn’t you be better off going out hunting for papas at upscale bars late at night or entering beauty pageants?
— A sore loser
🏅 手コキ評論家
入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
It’s Joe.
Basically, I suppose the amount you pay is directly proportional to how much trouble you are.
As you probably know, Joe can hardly be called a generous papa (a male supporter), but I do tend to splurge when I come into some windfall money. I’m not aware of it at the time, but apparently that turns me into a rather high-maintenance old guy.
Unfortunately—or fortunately?—that windfall was deposited recently. To avoid becoming an obnoxious old man, I’ve been spreading more smiles than necessary around the Hyakumanben area this week. I’ve been burned over and over again, so this time I’ll really try not to spend more than I received.
Other
Ah, “high-end pickup,” as Mac puts it—that really does fit.
A monthly arrangement can become too intrusive, you know. The same goes for having him rent you an apartment.
Marika
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
That’s only natural. Generally speaking, when the allowance goes up, there’s usually something to go along with it.