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Nov 18, 2021 19:03
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A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
I don’t think that at all.
Is this just bait from men who want to have unprotected sex?
The moment I’m asked to go without a condom, I back out.
Even when I was a student and couldn’t take responsibility—not even with my wife—I always used a condom.
Unprotected sex ≠ love.
That’s not how it works.
Other
I’m Shingo Lee (Shingori), a column writer.
Hmm, it does feel like more people are okay with sex without condoms these days, but I don’t get the impression that ejaculating inside is widely accepted. I’m honestly jealous.
Maybe it’s because the idea that “sex without a condom equals love” has become so widespread. In most countries outside Japan, sex without condoms has traditionally been the norm for couples.
Also, having a baby before marriage has become more socially accepted, and since some people won’t get married unless a pregnancy happens, I feel like fewer and fewer women insist on condoms these days.
Of course, it also seems like contraceptive pill use becomes more common from the late twenties onward.
Most of my friends-with-benefits partners take the pill, but they seem worried about the aftermath and often ask me to pull out instead… *sobs*.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer this as well.
I’m not sure what the questioner is misunderstanding, but agreeing to sex without protection may sometimes mean she’s trying to get pregnant.
After all, if you die, she could become entitled to an inheritance. If you have assets worth ¥1 billion and only one child, she could receive ¥250 million.
And naturally, if she became pregnant, she could also ask for child support.
I don’t understand why you’re only thinking about the present. Don’t you ever consider what might happen down the line?
I don’t know whether there are women who would go that far, but it’s probably best to keep it in mind as a possibility, right?
Of course, if you don’t have any assets, then perhaps there’s nothing to worry about.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m not sure what “a while ago” refers to, but it’s true that I’m shocked by how many girls are okay with going bareback.
I find myself wondering whether they’re really taking the pill, but when they say, “I prefer it without a condom” or “Finish inside,” I can’t bring myself to refuse…
This week, I bought several STI test kits from Yobokai for just under ¥20,000 in total. Can anyone give me some good ideas on how to turn down going bareback without hurting a woman’s feelings?
I’m always nervous, wondering when I might get someone pregnant…
And yet, when they say, “I prefer it without a condom,” I can’t deny that it makes me happy… What am I even doing?
—A Loser Guy