I’m a female member.

Maezawa here as well. It’s upsetting when you had plans for a date but never hear back. We can’t say for sure yet whether you’ve been blocked. It’s also possible that something happened and she’s unable to get in touch. As you said, it’s possible she stopped replying because the comment updates bothered her. In fact, we fairly often hear from men saying, “I’ve lost contact with a woman I was seeing.” Of course, they generally understand that if she no longer wants to be in touch, there’s not much they can do. Their concern is usually along the lines of, “If something happened, I’d like to know, but if she simply doesn’t want to contact me anymore, I suppose it can’t be helped.” In those cases, staff sometimes check with the woman, saying something like: “Mr. ◯◯ is worried that perhaps something may have happened to you. If you simply no longer wish to stay in touch, he understands, but did something happen?” Normally, we don’t get involved in dates after the first one, but I think something like this would be reasonable. Of course, most of the time, the woman simply no longer wants to be in contact. Occasionally, though, we hear things like, “My phone was submerged and I lost some of my data. Could you let him know that he can contact me at this new number?” If knowing what happened would help you feel a little better, we may be able to consult with the woman and do what we can. Please feel free to contact our staff. If the staff at your nearest branch refuses to assist you, please contact me directly.

I’m Saito♪, a columnist and active male member. Why did she post something she wanted you to know on her club profile instead of telling you directly? It seems only natural for a man to assume that she’s looking for new offers… Or, if this message is really genuine, he might think she’s not very bright… Once you enter the real world, there aren’t many people who will point things out to you. Rather than wondering, “Why didn’t they just say they didn’t like it?” it’s also important to create an environment where people feel comfortable giving you advice. I’m the type who thinks, “Oh, she’s getting new offers,” and finds it amusing. People are all different.