Do you think some women receive a lot of offers? What kind of woman becomes a long-term partner?

I’m Fuu, a columnist. My current monthly arrangements are like this: Over meals: - They react to what I say. - They also keep the conversation going themselves. - I make an effort to learn about their interests, and they understand what I’m interested in too. - They smile and say, “This is delicious.” In private: - They don’t mind hugging. - When we sit next to each other, they move closer. - They kiss me. - They show that they’re enjoying it, make sounds, and get wet. - As everyone says, they pay attention and do their best to make sure Fuu enjoys it too. (Of course, I also pay attention and do my best to make sure they enjoy themselves...) One girl in particular was unexpected. She’s appeared in my columns—she was 19 at first, with a somewhat flashy look. At our first meeting, she was completely passive, and she even worked at a sex cabaret for a while. But she was a genuinely good person who always tried her best, and she gradually became better and better at intimacy. She grew into an adult, and now she really treats me as a person and continues to see me. She’s become someone truly irreplaceable. At first, I thought we’d part ways pretty quickly, but...

I’m BB7. The chemistry and physical compatibility when it comes to intimacy— Isn’t that the only thing that really matters? No matter how fun she is to talk to, how nice her personality is, or how beautiful she is, if that one thing doesn’t click, it ruins everything.

I’m Flag Maker, a columnist. Recently, I went on a second date with an adult video actress I’m into. Since our first date was mostly about cautiously feeling each other out, I was thinking there probably wouldn’t be a third date if this one didn’t go well. But then, during this move—I don’t know what it’s called—where she was in an M-shaped straddle, lifting and grinding her hips while licking my nipples, basically a spider cowgirl position like a spider eating its prey, I thought, “There’s definitely going to be a third date.” In other words, bedroom skills and effort can be a reason to keep things going. Actually, most women don’t try that hard, do they? When I spoil them, they start taking it for granted. Seeing that side of them leaves me feeling a little underwhelmed.

She’s the kind of woman who brings out your paternal instincts. If the attraction is based solely on her femininity, it becomes a transactional relationship and doesn’t last. —A losing man P.S. The girls who make an effort are the ones who stick around. Other than the top-tier and second-tier girls, most don’t really try.

I’m Kazu, a male member. The relationships that continue are with women who are fun to talk to, good in bed, maintain a comfortable distance—not too close or too distant—and are considerate in a way that suits a compensated relationship. One of the women I’m still seeing was recommended by a staff member rather than someone I found myself. Adding this after reading Flag Maker’s answer: > Most women don’t really try that hard, do they? That’s true—I don’t think they try very hard. More precisely, I think they simply don’t know what they’re supposed to do to make an effort. > The cowgirl position with her legs spread in an M shape, lifting her hips and thrusting down. Apparently, it’s called the spider position or the pile-driver position.