What’s with girls who take a whole week to reply on LINE? I don’t know if they’re busy, but can a reply really take that long?
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Even when I sent a message about scheduling a week in advance, she sometimes didn’t reply until the night before.
I feel like a long-term arrangement would only become stressful, so I’ll cut things off early. Still, it’s especially disappointing when she’s exactly my type.
I’m Shingo Lee, a columnist.
I get questions like this a lot, but someone who sees you as nothing more than a cash cow will only contact you as much as necessary to get money out of you.
In other words, to her, you have very little value.
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I’m Nana Ayase ♡
If you don’t get a reply within a day, take it as a sign she’s not interested.
Block and delete her, then move on and look for someone else.
There are plenty of new girls joining.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I think she’s taking her papa for granted. If it were her beloved boyfriend, she’d probably be glued to her phone and replying immediately… So I think ending things is the right call—or rather, it seems like there’s no other option.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
It may simply be that you’re low on the questioner’s list of priorities, or that she has two phones and doesn’t regularly check the LINE account she uses for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
If she’s popular, it’s probably best to assume you have some competition.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here.
As for “What’s the deal?”—you won’t know the reason unless you ask her directly.
As Mac said, if she works shifts or has a job where things can come up unexpectedly, it may not be possible for her to confirm until right before.
If that’s the case—or if you haven’t asked her about it—then I’d say the questioner is lacking communication.
Ask her various questions: Why is she so slow to respond? Is there something wrong?
That said, you need to understand that she may not be able to answer if you question her angrily. It’s important to show that you’re genuinely willing to listen.
Of course, if you’re planning to cut ties with her, you don’t necessarily need to go that far. But if you’re ending things every time this happens, then the problem lies with you.
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I’m Fuu, a columnist.
I think it would be best to end things.
If I were to imagine how she feels, it might go something like this:
“Oh, I really don’t want to meet him.”
↓ “But I’m short on money…”
↓ The day before the meeting: “Oh, he messaged me.”
↓ “I want the money, so I’ll reply for now.”
That’s probably what’s going on, don’t you think?
Sorry—this is just Fuu’s speculation.
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That’s how my top girl is.
She’s slow to reply, but she might be busy preparing a surprise in the meantime, so I don’t mind at all. If anything, it’s cute.
There’s also a chance she can sense how impatient you are over something as minor as a slow LINE reply, and has already decided you’re just another older guy with no composure.
The only advantage an older guy has over a young, handsome one is the composure that comes with being an adult. I’m honestly curious how you plan to compete after throwing away your only weapon.
Maybe you’re thinking, “I pay her, so I’m the one in charge.”
What a loser.
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