Where do you all usually have sex during papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)?
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For me, it’s usually either a love hotel or the man’s place.
I’m fine with a clean love hotel, but when it’s old and dirty, I just want to leave as soon as possible.
At a man’s place, sometimes the bathroom is dirty or I notice stains on the bed sheets, which gives me goosebumps...
Are there really not many people who use business hotels or luxury hotels every time?
Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here.
> Are there really not many people who use city hotels or luxury hotels every time?
I don’t know the exact percentage, but some men use city hotels because women dislike love hotels.
The problem, though, is that if you reserve a room in advance and she turns you down after dinner, the reservation goes to waste. But if you don’t reserve one, there may not be any rooms available.
That’s what some people have told me.
Rooms are easier to book now because of COVID, but before the pandemic, Tokyo hotels were often nearly fully booked, making rooms difficult to secure. After COVID dies down, rooms may become hard to book again due to the return of foreign tourists.
If that happens, I feel more people may start using love hotels for the same reason.
As you said, cheap love hotels can be depressing, so it’s best to reserve a nice one.
That said, even at a good love hotel, a lower-grade room can be cramped and somewhat disappointing.
I suppose luck plays a part as well.
Still, I feel the more expensive rooms are usually available.
(Or is it just my imagination that the cheaper rooms seem to fill up first?)
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I’m Aya, a female member.
The hotels my papas stay at are pretty pricey. I used to go to nice love hotels with different papas, but because the locations weren’t very convenient, I mostly stick to city hotels or luxury hotels now.
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
I understand how you feel.
A clean, stylish love hotel—or at least one with well-maintained rooms—would be fine, but many of them aren’t as clean as I’d like, so I usually go with a city hotel.
The idea of doing it standing from behind in a love hotel with mirrors is exciting, but I’d hate it if the room were dirty, so I can’t bring myself to go to one very often.
I’m sure there must be some if you look hard enough, though.
A clean love hotel.
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I'm Joe.
I've never gone to a love hotel with a woman introduced to me through a club. Tokyo has all kinds of city hotels to suit different levels, and because the competition is fierce, you can enjoy yourself without going somewhere ultra-luxurious. In fact, the casual service at some ultra-luxury international hotels can sometimes rub Joe the wrong way.
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I have one woman who prefers APA Hotels, but most of the others choose places around ¥20,000.
That said, I book a five-star hotel for their birthdays.
When I first started, I always booked five-star hotels. But when I asked, “Would you rather have the difference added to your allowance?” it was interesting that every woman said she’d prefer a lower-grade hotel.
I don’t go to love hotels, and going to my place is out of the question. Not that I’m against love hotels—I’d actually be happy to go to a clean one, but I assume the women wouldn’t like it, so I don’t.
Sometimes I’m invited to a woman’s room, but I turn it down.
Also, I’m not very bright, so I can’t tell the difference between a city hotel and a luxury hotel. Aman is a city hotel, apparently.
—A losing man
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I always use city hotels. Recently, I got talking with a woman about love hotels, and for the first time, I went to one with a woman from the club.
I don’t want to let anyone else into my home, so having her over isn’t an option.
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