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Nov 16, 2021 06:38
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This may be more of a rant about my boyfriend than a relationship question.
It's long, but would you hear me out?
I've been living with my boyfriend since before I started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
He's fairly good-looking, and I think he's kind.
He's young, but he has no money.
I'm not satisfied at all when we're intimate, so it's a hassle, and I can't stand his body odor, so we've practically stopped being intimate. He smells so bad that I don't even want to sleep in the same room.
Lately, I often get irritated because all my boyfriend does is play games on his phone.
It really pisses me off that he just lounges around being useless when he doesn't even have any money.
I've been seeing my papa for about a year. He's single, and he always tells me to break up with my boyfriend, genuinely be with him, and marry him.
For a papa, he's young, highly educated, works for a good company despite his age, and has money.
He's kind and treats me very well.
I'm the first person he's ever had in papa-katsu, so he's not the type who plays around with lots of women.
Maybe because of his age, he doesn't have much stamina, but I like being intimate with my papa.
The only problem is that he's really unattractive...
If I really broke up with my boyfriend and got together with my papa, I feel like I'd be treated well and could live a comfortable, reasonably happy life.
I'm also attracted to the idea of a lavish wedding ring and wedding ceremony.
But when I think about what our children might look like and their potential in the future, is my young, handsome boyfriend—the one who's poor right now—the better choice?
Assuming both of them have good personalities, I guess it comes down to money versus looks...
I know I'm being calculating and awful.
I don't know who I can talk to about this, and I'm at a loss.
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Other
I’m BB7.
Whichever one you choose, I think she’ll eventually run off with another guy.
So there’s not much difference either way.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
If you want to be a stay-at-home wife, why not marry your papa? Hopefully, you’ll have a child who looks like you.
That boyfriend is no good. Once he gets older, he’ll just be old and useless. If he’s young and already smells bad, it’ll only get worse. If you’re going to both work, you should look for another boyfriend too.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Most people get married and live their lives based on practical considerations, so I think it’s perfectly normal.
Since the chances of your boyfriend living up to his potential seem pretty low, I think it would be better to look for a new boyfriend.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member, Paper Airplane.
At the very least, marrying your papa (a male supporter) is out of the question. Actually, a boyfriend with unbearable body odor is a no-go too, right?