My papa always chooses restaurants with a calm atmosphere, but he books the cheapest dinner course every time—around ¥3,000–¥4,000 per person.
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The restaurants all have an average spend of over ¥10,000 per customer, so honestly, the course is pretty disappointing.
Maybe I’m just a big eater, but at some restaurants there aren’t many dishes and I’m still hungry. Would it be annoying if I asked for a course with more dishes?
Also, I used to think my papa was a bit stingy, but I saw another question from someone who meets their papa at family restaurants. Does that mean he’s not actually stingy, and that he’s just good at choosing restaurants?
I’m Ayase Nana ♡
Men treat you to a meal, and then you complain that they’re cheap or that the portions are too small…
How much do you have to eat before you’re satisfied?
Women who eat that much look awful.
Your stomach is sticking out, isn’t it? You can actually get naked with that body? You’ve got some nerve.
Honestly, I’m disgusted.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
You let someone treat you, then complain that the set menu was lousy or that he was cheap—you really say whatever you want, don’t you?
I don’t want to take a woman who can’t appreciate good food and just eats a lot to an expensive restaurant.
Please come with your appetite adjusted.
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Are you an A-type?
If you are, it’s natural to feel dissatisfied. But if you’re assuming an adult relationship (intimate), I don’t think you’ll get anywhere by being particular about the meals.
What you want is:
Allowance × Continuity
Right? In that case, you’d be better off giving up on the meals and focusing on securing the allowance.
There’s no papa (a male supporter) who will take you to a high-end restaurant every time, book a five-star hotel suite, and pay an allowance of at least 100,000 yen.
Men decide on a total budget for each date, so if you want expensive meals, don’t complain when the allowance is lower.
—A Loser Guy
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Prices also vary depending on the ingredients, but yes, the number of courses is different. As you get older, you can’t eat as much, so even a smaller course is usually enough. When you’re young, you get hungry, don’t you?
I think it would be fine to ask, “Can I have this too?”
Marika
P.S.
Also, some restaurants only accept reservations for set courses, so he may have ordered the least expensive course for the time being, intending to add whatever he liked. I don’t know if that’s the case with that papa, though…
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Maezawa from the President’s Office here as well.
Only about one in a thousand people take someone to a family restaurant, so I think it’s safe to assume that almost nobody does.
That’s probably why, even in that response, many people said their relationship with that man was a “no.”
There’s no point using something unrealistic as your standard. That said, there are times when living with your head down can make you happier, but at Universe Club, I feel we’d rather you didn’t deliberately lower your expectations.
Now, getting back to the main topic:
I’m honestly impressed that you were able to find a restaurant with courses costing around ¥3,000–¥4,000, and I do wonder whether it really was a course meal.
Still, if the restaurant itself had a decent atmosphere, you could compliment him while mentioning that you’d like to eat a little more next time, and smoothly steer the conversation toward a larger course.
Good luck.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
It probably depends on the man, but I get the feeling he simply prefers smaller portions. I don’t eat much myself, and leaving food on my plate feels rude, so I tend to choose courses with smaller portions.
In my case, that’s just because of my personal preference, so I wouldn’t mind if she said, “That looks delicious—would it be okay if I had some too?”
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Another reason is that eating too much upsets my stomach and makes it difficult to have sex afterward.
Adding this after reading Maezawa’s answer:
Come to think of it, a 3,000–4,000 yen course does seem rather cheap.
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It’s Joe.
Rather than asking for a more expensive course, it might be easier to say, “It was so delicious—can I have a little more?” The key is to compliment your papa’s taste in restaurants while also satisfying your own appetite.
I don’t know what kind of relationship you have, so I can’t say for sure whether he’s stingy. Maybe he’s just frugal, haha. Though a lot of women here would call that stingy, lol.
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