Tips Nov 14, 2021 17:02

Have you ever found out later that a favorite woman you met through a club—whom you dated believing she was “nonprofessional” (meaning she had no experience in the sex industry or compensated dating)—was actually a delivery escort?

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All five of my past favorites turned out to be. It sometimes takes years to find out, so the sting is manageable, but since I was dating them back then without ever imagining it, I’m still left with a bit of a nagging feeling(笑)
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ジョー・ルビコン
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入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
It’s Joe. When I’d just joined, I once made offers to five women in one month—and all five turned out to be AV actresses (lol). None of them mentioned it in their profiles, so I was honestly amazed at my luck—or should I say, my pulling power? (In an Okinawan dialect kind of way—oh, I’m in Okinawa right now.) So I guess Joe wins⁉︎
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You must like women with that kind of vibe. I think you should be proud of having such consistent, unwavering tastes (lol). Marika
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
I’ll answer too—Maezawa from the CEO’s office. You found out later? How did you find out? Was it that you called a delivery service and the woman you were dating showed up? But if you called one in the first place, it means you like that kind of service, so I assume that’s the type of woman you’re attracted to. I don’t understand why you’re still feeling unsettled. You were able to date the kind of woman you like, so I would think that’s a good thing. What exactly bothers you? Also, perhaps she wasn’t working for a delivery service at first, but after dating you, she gained the confidence to think, “I can handle even the worst kind of man,” and started working there. If there’s a 100% chance that one of these is true, the latter seems statistically more likely to me.
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Fuu
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer. ? Can you tell later if someone has five favorites? Unless she tells you herself, you can’t really know whether she works in the adult entertainment industry, right? If you’re wondering, “Could she be in the adult entertainment business?” then maybe you can get a sense of it, but you can’t be sure. You might be able to tell with a few people, but five seems like too many… that’s how it feels to me, anyway.
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だて◎ゆめ
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. Since this is a dating club, I’m sure some women here have had all kinds of experiences. I don’t think there’s any need to pry too much into what happened before you met. What matters is how things were after you started seeing each other. I think that’s what people should be judged on. Everyone has one or two things they can’t tell other people.
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ダイ
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member. The very first woman I went on a date with was like that. The women who rank highly in the adult entertainment industry often have a natural, girl-next-door vibe. That type can also become popular at a club and be a hit, but asking for 50,000 yen for the first meeting is definitely too much.
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