I've become completely used to dating beautiful women.
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Every now and then, I come to my senses and feel disillusioned, thinking, “Ah, she may be this beautiful and have such a refined, innocent air about her, but she's the kind of woman who thought it was okay to be intimate with dozens of older men in exchange for money—and actually did it.”
(I’m no more than a man who’s paid for sex with dozens of women myself, while putting on a gentlemanly act.)
Am I an idiot for becoming disillusioned with someone I’m seeing in this way?
Or is it something else?
Maezawa from the CEO’s office will answer as well.
You’ve still got a long way to go.
With papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), you need to work at it diligently for at least ten years first.
…Then, after another ten years, you start to understand how strong your partner really is.
After thirty years of papa-katsu, you finally realize just how weak you are yourself.
After forty years, you no longer understand anything at all.
That’s the kind of world it is.
The questioner still needs to meet many more women—you’re only at the “rookie” level.
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I’m Aya, one of the female members.
Take a cue from my papas (male supporters). They graduated long ago from the kind of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) where you treat women like adult entertainment and swap them out one after another for fun. Isn’t that way more thrilling and enjoyable???
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I’m a male member—and a total loser.
We creepy old guys are only able to get beautiful women to spend time with us because of our money, so being able to have that kind of impression is honestly a talent in its own way.
Before meeting the women I’m seeing, I do these two things every time:
- Look at my miserable reflection in the mirror
- Stare at the allowance I’m planning to give her and think, “She wouldn’t spend time with me if I didn’t have this…”
Of course, it’s a different story if you’re a handsome young papa (a male supporter).
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I’m Dai, a male member.
I wouldn’t call you foolish, but I do wonder why you’re bringing this up now.
If that’s something you’re uncomfortable with, you should look for a woman who only wants an adult relationship with one man.
There aren’t many, but women like that do exist.
They also tend to leave or suspend their membership soon after joining.
Personally, I feel there are quite a few among the Gold female members…
That said, in that case, it’s only proper for you to see her exclusively as well.
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I’m Basil, a male member.
I sometimes feel the same way, but I keep using the service knowing that’s how things are, so I don’t feel disillusioned or put off. I approach it thinking it’s better than going to a sex worker, and that I’ll be lucky if I can get close to a girl who’s only had a few experiences.
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I’m Osaka, a male member.
Or maybe…?
That ending cracked me up, lol.
I’m going to start using it too♡
I imagined you, the questioner, smiling at a dimly lit bar counter with a rocks glass in hand.
Even though it’s still morning, lol.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
It’s natural to feel that way, and in some respects, I think it’s actually important to feel that way.
I see it as an opportunity to find a good man or woman. Once you find the right person, I think it’s best to “graduate” from papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) and continue seeing each other.
If continually looking for one partner after another becomes papa-katsu itself, you may start to feel that way—and once you do, you might not be able to keep going from one partner to the next.
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