I found out that the woman I’m seeing is one of the most popular women at the club.
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I was really disappointed, which made me realize that I must have a possessive side too.
What should I do?
Have any of you ever struggled with the same thing?
I’m columnist Fuu.
If you don’t like it, pay her enough to cover what all her other papas would give her and keep her exclusively.
Or offer to a girl who doesn’t seem to get many offers and aim to become her one-and-only papa?
If you can’t do that, should you just give up?
If a popular woman is still willing to date you, shouldn’t you be grateful for that alone?
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I’m Aya, a female member.
One of my papas knowingly sent me off to dinner with a guy my age, fully aware that he’d try to win me over. But when I merely texted him that I might be a little late getting back to him at the agreed time, he started bombarding me with calls, asking, “What are you doing right now?”
I guess that was when he first realized how possessive he was. It wasn’t long after that before he started saying, “This is my last love.”
He actually seems happier now that he’s become possessive.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
I never intended to have a woman all to myself from the start, so it doesn’t bother me.
Since you thought you weren’t possessive, but felt disappointed when you found out she was popular, you may be quite attracted to her.
In relationships, the one who falls harder is the one who loses, so I think you should be careful.
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I’m Basil, a male member.
If I can maintain an ongoing relationship, it gives me confidence—or rather, a sense of relief—that I’m not at the very bottom, at least.
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I’m “Paper Airplane,” a male member.
I’d rather be chosen by a popular woman, so first I need to have confidence that I’m worth choosing.
I try to think of it this way: women who are popular have higher standards. They understand what they like and dislike, and can recognize the differences between men, so they’ll be able to appreciate what sets me apart and choose me.
When I’m chosen for those reasons, it also gives me the reassurance that she won’t move on to another man.
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Let’s be honest: if you want to keep her exclusive, offer a generous allowance.
If you can’t do that, then keep seeing her while stewing in frustration.
Or are you asking me to change an old man’s diapers?
When all I can say is something like that, I really don’t know what advice to give…
— Loser Guy
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