If the woman you’re seeing starts looking worse with age or neglect, what would you do?
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Would you leave her, point it out, pay for her to see a cosmetic surgeon, start looking for someone else, grow to like her even more, offer advice, feel responsible, etc.?
Men, what would you do?
I’m Aya, a female member.
First of all, I find the word “decline” uncomfortable because it treats the person in question like an object.
Even setting that aside, are there really cases where a woman’s “decline” is more noticeable than a papa’s? Girls who do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) tend to care a lot about their appearance, so I honestly don’t think that happens very often. Perhaps you simply prefer girls with very little interest in their looks.
Or are you making offers to overworked office workers at exploitative companies who only get two hours of sleep and have no time for skincare, or to mothers who are about to have another child and may gain weight during pregnancy? Either way, calling those changes a “decline” is incredibly rude.
Well, maybe only unattractive women come to meet you.
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I’m Basil, a male member.
Maybe because I mainly date women in their twenties, even when I meet someone again after a while and feel that her vibe has changed, I’ve never felt that she’s actually declined.
If I ever did feel that way, I’d probably move on.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
I’ve never really noticed much change in a woman’s looks, but if I felt she had become too comfortable and stopped making an effort, I’d probably end things.
Other than that, none of the options really apply to me.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
That way of thinking is distasteful.
I’ve never felt that a woman had “declined,” and it’s a word I would never want to use toward women. Please reserve it for yourself.
You should like the other person more and more, while also becoming more attractive so they feel the same about you. I believe that’s the fundamental rule for maintaining a good relationship for both of you.
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