My papa is seeing multiple women. I’m totally fine with that, but his place is full of traces of other women, and it’s honestly starting to bother me. For example, he left a used condom from another woman—someone he probably had sex with a few hours earlier or the day before—right out in the open instead of throwing it in the trash. I wrapped it in tissue and threw it away.

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Judging by the number of toothbrushes there, I suspect he may have at least five other women besides me. Some women, like me, may not leave any personal belongings at a man’s place, so I have no idea how many women he’s actually seeing. I really don’t mind him seeing other women at all (I talk to this papa about my other papas too), but I do feel uncomfortable when he leaves used condoms lying around. But for women who are okay with their papa seeing multiple partners, is this normally something they don’t mind at all?

Answer 1

I’m Fuu, a columnist. You’re pretty bold to have sex in a filthy room where he leaves used condoms lying around instead of throwing them away. Even the day before, the smell must be awful. That papa sounds really careless. If I were a woman, I’d definitely turn someone that dirty down.

Answer 2

I’m a male member, and even I’m shocked. Using a different car for each woman you’re seeing and leaving no trace is absolutely basic, so this has to be bait, right? Wasn’t there a similar question before?

Answer 3

I’m Dai, a male member. Is this another bait post? I can’t imagine a man leaving a used condom lying around and then meeting the next woman in that same place. Even if such a man really existed, it would simply mean he was treating you like a bargain-basement sex worker. It has nothing to do with whether he allows multiple partners.

Answer 4

I’m Kazu, a male member. Of course you’re curious. But that’s a matter of discretion, separate from seeing multiple people.

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