Which male respondent makes you think, “He must be popular with women in real life too—or he probably has been”?
I’d like some recommendations so I can model myself after a popular respondent and become more popular myself.
I’d appreciate it if you could leave out the amount of the allowance. Anyone would be popular if they offered a high allowance, after all.
If possible, please include the reason for your recommendation as well.
Female respondents, I’d love to hear from you too.
Something along the lines of, “I don’t particularly like this respondent, but I’m sure he’s popular with women in real life,” would be perfectly fine.
Come to think of it, hasn’t the number of female respondents gone down? There are only four regulars now, right?
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here as well.
Huh?
Imitation?
That’s impossible.
I don’t think the questioner has enough money to imitate him, even if they tried.
For example, could you build a Magic Mirror van?
You can’t, because you don’t have the funds, right?
Or could you pay an allowance of hundreds of thousands of yen every time?
You can’t, right?
Or could you imitate his appearance?
Would you get plastic surgery or start training?
For that matter, how exactly do you plan to imitate a respondent you’ve never even met?
In the end, saying you want to imitate him is a lie.
You just want to get people to write about who’s popular, don’t you?
What is this ridiculous scribble supposed to be?
It isn’t even a question...
I wish they’d stop scheming to shut down the question box by any means necessary.
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I’m a male member who’s never had much luck.
Judging from the content of their answers, I think these four would be popular even without money:
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I’m Dai, a male member.
What are you planning to do with that information as a male member?
I don’t see any point in answering questions asked purely out of curiosity.
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I’m Taro, a male member.
Wanting to be popular feels like an idea from the ’80s or ’90s. Honestly, the mindset itself seems kind of outdated.
Everyone has people they’re compatible with out there—there’s always a certain probability of finding them. In the past, there were fewer opportunities to meet people, so all you could do was try to improve your success rate. But now, you can reach a much wider pool, so it makes sense to have a strategy for finding people who are a good match. In fact, that’s probably the mainstream approach now, since it makes both sides happier. (People who do it purely as a business are a different matter.)
I started out with a game of being intimate within the allotted time with girls who came through a delivery service. At first, I focused on how to persuade them successfully, but I soon realized the truth: if you’re compatible, things work out, and if you’re not, nothing you do will make a difference. Once I changed my mindset, it became much easier to keep stacking up wins（笑）. As I got more experienced, I could usually tell the moment I opened the door, and after about five minutes of conversation in the room, I’d be certain. I did test both sides by approaching people who didn’t seem promising, just to make sure, but my judgment turned out to be right.
This is all about the other person, after all. The basics—being clean and well-mannered—are essential, but beyond that, it comes down to your individual personality. So the advice from respondents who are popular may not fundamentally suit someone who isn’t（笑）. Each respondent has a strong personality, so I think it’s better to carefully study someone who seems similar to you.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I’ve never judged the men answering here based on whether they’re popular with women or not. I don’t know how to put it—it’s just that when it comes to men in the papa age group, I don’t really think in terms of being popular or unpopular.
Unlike in our student days, money is a given, so I sometimes wonder: what does genuine appeal as a man—even “being popular”—really mean?
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
A dating club is a place where popular men use money to make popular women happy.
Don’t start by thinking about how to become popular—start by thinking of yourself as already popular. Otherwise, it won’t be fun.
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