Tips Nov 12, 2021 23:19

There’s an older guy who digs his nails in when he fingers me. Even when I tell him how to touch me, he still uses his nails. It’s not the fingertips. It hurts so much—how can I explain it so he’ll understand? If he’s bad at it, I wish he wouldn’t touch me, but he keeps wanting to touch me.

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I’ll answer as Maezawa from the CEO’s office as well. You could try saying something like: “It hurts so much that I can’t stand it, so please don’t put your fingers in. Sorry!” After that, if he tries to put his fingers in, try to block him. If he asks, “Then what should I do?” you could say: “Please cut your nails really short—almost too short.” You could also send him a link like this: https://p-dress.jp/articles/8622 If he feels that’s too much trouble, he’ll probably give up on using his fingers.
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I’m Fuu, a column writer. That sounds painful—poor you. Say, “Ow!” and take his hand away to make him stop. You could also try saying, “I bled last time, so please don’t touch me today.” If ending things isn’t an option, tell him clearly and repeatedly until he changes his behavior. While laughing, put his fingers on his penis, scratch lightly with your nails, and show him, “This is what it feels like.”
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I’m Dai, a male member. The prouder a man is, the less likely he is to listen to a woman’s advice. I’ve also never heard of a man who was bad at sex suddenly becoming good at it. The best option would be to break things off with him, but I’m guessing you can’t bring yourself to leave because you don’t have any other men you’re seeing or because his allowance is appealing. As a drastic measure, how about going together to a swingers’ club? If he sees you being treated by other men right in front of him, he might be shocked by the difference in their reactions and change his ways.
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I’m Taro, a male member. I feel like it’s important not just to keep your nails short, but also to round off the corners and file them smooth. It also helps to be mindful of touching with the pads of your fingers—the part used for fingerprint recognition—and to get into the habit of relaxing the very tips of your fingers. Though I guess none of that matters if your partner isn’t reading this. Wouldn’t it be quicker to have them put a condom on your finger? Rather than an ultra-thin 0.01 mm one, something thicker and designed more for feel, like SKYN, might be better.
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All papas should absolutely go to a nail salon. That’s what happens when you don’t pay attention to your nails, right? I feel bad for you, questioner… Men should take even more interest in their appearance than women do. Women look closely at men’s nails, you know—especially beautiful women. I recommend going on a nail salon date with that papa. Get him to start paying attention to his nails. —Loser Guy
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