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Nov 12, 2021 20:05
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Even my boyfriend my age buys me designer goods…
Is there any way to cure his stinginess?
I’d like him even more, so why is he so stubbornly against giving me presents?
6 answers
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member, Paper Airplane.
I guess neither of us likes the other that much.
If I liked her, I’d give her a present.
🏅 手コキ評論家
入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
This is Joe.
Since the gift issue comes up here on the forum from time to time, I’ll offer my opinion.
I think there are two major issues when it comes to gifts in club arrangements:
1. There’s often a huge gap between men and women in terms of the type and price of gifts they give.
2. It’s extremely rare to find a papa (a male supporter) who is generous (well-paying) with both the allowance and gifts.
You may not be satisfied with that, but even if he acts like your boyfriend, wouldn’t it be better to consider it enough as long as you’re happy with the allowance? That way, the arrangement is more likely to last, and ultimately it may benefit you as well. If you chase two rabbits, you’ll catch neither. Please get your gifts from your boyfriend.
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
Men who act like they’re your boyfriend usually give me presents, though. Maybe you’re not playing the girlfriend role enough. Try asking him cutely.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
“I don’t give presents because she isn’t worth giving one to.
I do give presents to women who are worth it.”
That’s probably what someone will answer.
A bitter loser
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
He acts like her boyfriend, but he isn’t one. He gives her an allowance, but doesn’t go as far as buying her gifts.
So close.
Just a little more effort!
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
I wouldn’t know—I’ve never acted like someone’s boyfriend—but if you want designer goods, buy them yourself.