What is a man’s intention when he asks, “Will you see me again?” during sex?
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I’d be worried he might lose his erection, so all I can do is say yes.
Since I’m already turned off internally when I’m asked this, I don’t make any specific plans, send a thank-you LINE message, then block and delete him and block his number as well.
Would he really be happy with a “yes” that was forced out of me?
Or does it mean the mood or physical compatibility is so bad for him that he can’t climax unless he gets me to say whether I want to see him again?
I don’t think I’m particularly passive—I move on my own and make noises normally. I’m not sure about how tight I am, though.
I’m in Seattle.
Just say, “Of course. I adore you. I love you,” then block him once you’re home. Easy—just sit there picking your nose.
You’re not done with the job until you get home.
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I do say things like that sometimes—sorry m(｡>__<｡)m
I turn into an idiot during sex, so I end up saying things I don’t even mean.
And honestly, my thoughts are unbelievably stupid too.
“Will you see me again?” → “I want her to believe I like her” → “If I tell her I like her, she’ll be happy.”
I’m such a hopeless idiot, so please just cut me off cleanly.
Come to think of it, I sometimes say “I like you” or “I love you” during sex too. I really should just die, honestly.
But women sometimes tell me they like me or love me during sex as well.
—A losing loser
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Maybe he’s simply getting carried away, thinking, “That felt good—I want to do it again. I want to see you again,” and blurting it out on his own.
Given that he says things like “It felt good” and “You’re cute,” it sounds like you’re already losing interest if you interpret his words the way described in the question. I think it’s fine to just play along casually and let it slide.
If you liked the date, his personality, and the allowance, you’d probably respond, “Of course!” if he asked you the same thing, right?
Akari
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I’m Taro, a male member.
That’s a rare one. Maybe she suddenly wanted to see you again in the middle of the act. I bet she spends her time at home flipping through magazines, fiddling with her phone, and watching TV all at once.
A. Since it’s apparently the final stretch of the pennant race, reply, “Your next appearance depends on today’s result.”
B. Say something confusing like, “It’s not that I might not see you again,” while firmly turning her down.
C. Suddenly start shouting “Oh, yeah!” and thrusting wildly like in some cheesy foreign sex scene, then finish without knowing whether she was saying yes or just trying to bluff her way through it.
Sorry for answering like this was an improv comedy prompt. In any case, it’s such a rare situation that I doubt you’ll ever get another chance to use any of these, even after asking here. But I don’t think she asked you with any bad feelings as a man.
Still, she said it while moving, right? I wonder what kind of rhythm she used. What was she, a Johnny’s idol?
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I’m Aya, a female member.
When men act like that, they’re really not thinking about anything at all, so there’s no point trying to figure out what was going through their minds. You’d just be wasting your time.
Especially if you’re never going to see him again.
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Either way, if you already think there won’t be a second meeting the moment he asks, doesn’t it really matter?
Besides, even if you ask other people here, you’ll never know what he actually thought in the end.
That said, if I felt we weren’t a good match, I probably wouldn’t ask whether he’d meet me again either.
Marika
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