I’m Flagmaker, a column writer.
It’s not just against the rules—you’ll simply come across as seriously out of touch, so you should stop.
Whether she’s okay with no allowance is for the woman to decide.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
Do as you like.
You’ll probably receive some negative feedback from women, your star rating will drop, and women will stop accepting your offers.
The new rating system was introduced to help women avoid people like you.
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I’m Maezawa from the President’s Office, and I’ll answer as well.
Under Tokyo’s dating club ordinance, a “dating club business” is defined as:
“A business that arranges compensated relationships between customers and customers of the opposite sex.”
Universe Club has filed the required notification under Tokyo’s dating club ordinance and operates in compliance with the law.
In other words, even without spelling it out in the rules, relationships through a dating club are based on:
“a compensated relationship.”
Therefore, if saying “We do not accept relationships motivated by money” means “We do not accept compensated relationships,” then you will not be allowed to use Universe Club.
So, if a woman reports something like that and it is found to be true, the club will issue her a warning. If she repeats it, she will be forcibly banned from the club.
If you want to avoid relationships motivated by money in the first place, I believe you have joined the wrong kind of service.
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That’s not something you should be saying.
Are you really the kind of man who can make a woman fall head over heels and genuinely fall for you with nothing but transportation money?
Even if, by some miracle, that were true, why is it coming from a wrinkly old geezer like you?
I don’t get it.
Akari
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It might help to imagine the following scenario: You live on the Shiretoko Peninsula in Hokkaido, and you’ve arranged to meet a Black D-type woman living in Okinawa who charges a premium and doesn’t do letter dates. You fly from Hokkaido to Okinawa, book a suite at The Ritz-Carlton, Okinawa, take Viagra so you’re hard as a rock, and meet her in the Ritz lounge—only for her to say:
“I don’t accept relationships that are just about sex.”
What a loser.
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
Is there really any point in using a dating club in the first place?
Honestly, the woman will probably turn you down.
You’d just be wasting the offer fee.
Try a dating app instead.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I’m not entirely sure what you mean by saying, “I don’t accept relationships motivated by money,” but I don’t believe that’s prohibited under the rules.
Also,
https://universe-club.jp/media/61735/
> “Papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)” is generally understood as women offering their time to men, with the men paying them in return. However, that compensation isn’t necessarily monetary—it can take various forms, such as time, gifts, or emotional support. One benefit of papa-katsu was that the exchange of money allowed the relationship to remain transactional, but in recent years, we’ve increasingly received feedback that these relationships can also provide emotional support, support in one’s personal life, motivation at work, and other benefits of partnership that can also arise in romantic relationships or marriage.
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> In other words, I believe papa-katsu is evolving from being defined by the exchange of money into “an ambiguous relationship between a man and a woman who are neither romantic partners nor spouses, yet support each other in ways that are difficult to explain.” It’s a relationship that outsiders may not understand—perhaps a new kind of relationship between men and women created by the concept of a “papa.”
Since they went so far as to publish a statement like this, saying, “I don’t accept relationships motivated by money,” probably isn’t a problem under the rules.
That said, most female members probably won’t agree with the interpretation presented in that statement, so I imagine you’ll have a very difficult time finding someone. When telling a woman, “I don’t accept relationships motivated by money,” I think you should explain your position carefully.
Please be aware that this could result in negative feedback from women.
P.S.
See? You can tell how much the female members object by the number of likes（笑）.
Even if such a statement isn’t prohibited by the rules, I don’t think you should make comments like that.
If you accumulate enough negative feedback, you could potentially receive a warning or even be forcibly removed from the service in accordance with the rules.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I don’t think there’s any rule explicitly forbidding specific wording, but what benefit would a woman 20 or 30 years older or younger than the questioner get from continuing the relationship after the second date without any money involved?
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I’m Nana Ayase ♡
If you’re saying, “I don’t accept relationships that are based on money,” then that isn’t papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), is it?
Most women will probably turn you down. Are you okay with that?
Why did you come to Universe Club?
You’re saying you want to have an adult relationship (intimate) for free, right?
There may be one woman like that in a thousand, but as far as the dating club is concerned, they don’t get involved after you meet a woman, so I suppose what happens after that isn’t their concern. Still, I wonder if you’ll find anyone willing to date you.
Please use an app instead.
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