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As I wrote, “Men would understandably feel uncomfortable being thought of as ‘this girl must hate sex,’” I’m not trying to just lie there passively.
I’m asking how I can avoid giving the impression that I actually like sex.
It goes without saying that if I just lay there passively, I don’t have to worry about him disliking sex with me.
I’m Column Writer Flag Maker.
I know what you mean. Even though you’re only acting that way, it still feels unpleasant when the other person says it to you.
I feel a little awkward too when someone tells me, “You’re such a nice person,” even though I’m only pretending to be one.
But, to be honest, you’re bringing it on yourself. Instead of feeling disgusted, just think, “Wow, this one’s easy to fool. They’re completely blind. What an idiot,” and smirk to yourself.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
I don’t want to be seen as a girl who likes sex.
What can I do to avoid giving that impression?
But I don’t want to be seen as someone who dislikes sex, either.
Since liking or disliking something is an emotion, I think it’s difficult to control how you feel.
Still, since you love acting so much, the only thing you can do is play the part by telling yourself, “I neither like nor dislike sex.”
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here, answering as well.
> I’m asking how I can avoid making it seem like I actually like sex.
You do like it a lot, right?
If so, you’d simply need to act well enough that they don’t realize you enjoy it. But since you haven’t been able to do that, I wrote that
the other person can tell
that you “love it.”
As for what you can do, if you’re not good at acting, I suppose one option would be to just lie there passively.
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I’m BB7.
It pisses me off when my papas tell me to lose weight.
I don’t want to restrict my diet. I want to eat as much of whatever I like as I want. I hate exercising, and I want to enjoy as much alcohol and as many sweets as I like. I don’t want diet foods either. I love keeping irregular hours and going out at night.
Why should I have to give up so many things for those gross old men?
But I do want my papas to think, “Wow, she really worked hard and lost weight.”
Is there any good way to do that?
→ No.
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
I also looked at your previous question. Since this already seems so emotionally draining, you might be better off stepping away from papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) altogether.
During sex, you take the initiative, make sexy noises, successfully fool your papa (a male supporter), and get him to finish quickly. And even though it’s over nice and fast, you deliberately want him to think you don’t like it?
It seems like it would be harder if he thought you didn’t enjoy sex and it ended up taking longer…
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I’m a male member, Papercraft.
Since you’ve already managed to keep things more transactional than a pro, I think you should just stay that way.
Making him misunderstand your feelings is already a success.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Since you were asking how to achieve two contradictory things, that’s why I answered the way I did.
I assumed it was obvious that you were trying to achieve something contradictory, but apparently it wasn’t.
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I’m Aya, one of the female members.
If you want to make money, you have to “sacrifice” something. You understand that if you just lie there passively, people won’t like you and you won’t earn anything, so I think all you can do is keep trying as you are now.
You’ll make more money if they think you enjoy sex. That’s why, from the start, I thought the questioner was asking for something impossible.
If you really can’t stand how creepy it is when older men get the wrong idea, you could say something like, “I don’t particularly like sex. I only get this excited because I like you.” But if you say that, the older men will just misunderstand even more—thinking you have romantic feelings for them.
I’m happy when they get that impression, so I do say it. But since your relationship is transactional, I figured you probably couldn’t say that, which is why I didn’t include it in my previous answer.
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