To be honest, I don’t really want to have sex with the same woman that often. Ideally, I’d rotate through around two dozen women three or four times a year and have sex about once a week, but would this kind of frequency and number of partners realistically be difficult to arrange through a dating club?
Having sex with the same woman several times a month would inevitably become painful for me.
I’m Shingo Lee (Shingori), a column writer.
If you get bored having sex with the same girl, pickup seems to suit you better. The cost per hookup is just your share of the love hotel fee—around ¥2,000—so it’s economical, too.
That said, maintaining your looks takes both money and time. There are also approaches using dating apps, where appearance doesn’t matter quite as much. One guy in his late 40s manages to meet around 100 women a year, so it might be better for your quality of life to choose a setting that suits your preferences.
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I’m Basil, a male member.
I understand how you feel.
If you keep making offers to new women, build up the number of people you’re seeing, and at least stay in touch by replying to their messages, you can maintain relationships with a fair number of women.
Two dozen would be a bit much, but I’m the type to keep making new offers, so there was a period when I kept around ten women and met each of them once every month or two for a standard allowance.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
First of all, referring to women as “two dozen” is disrespectful. Are you treating women like objects?
For my part, I also keep things to about one date a month so neither of us gets bored.
It depends on the woman, but I think it’s possible as long as she’s satisfied with the adult relationship (intimate).
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Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here.
Given what you’re looking for, I think you’d be better off going to a hostess club or similar. That way, you could probably be intimate with a different woman each time.
At a dating club, more people are looking to build a relationship as two individuals rather than just meet for intimacy.
So I don’t think it’s the right fit for you.
I think the best option is to find somewhere that suits you.
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I’m Date ◎ Yume, a male member.
Seeing the same woman every other week doesn’t bother me at all（笑）
Neither of us pushes ourselves, the allowance stays consistent, and I feel like this is a pretty good pace for now.
“Rotating through two dozen women…”
That sounds like it would be quite a lot of work just finding that many women to date.
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I’m Fuu, a columnist.
Since women’s allowances aren’t stable without ongoing arrangements, it’s unrealistic to maintain 24 women and use a pay-per-meeting arrangement with all of them.
But if you don’t commit to ongoing arrangements and simply make offers each time, wouldn’t that make both Universe and women who receive fewer offers happy?
You could become one of Universe’s top clients.
Make lots of offers!
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① Gentlemanly ✕ allowance of 100,000 yen or more
② Handsome older guy ✕ good at sax ✕ allowance of 70,000 yen or more
Either ① or ② should easily help you achieve what you’re looking for. I’m not sure it’s really worth asking about.
—Loser Guy
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
As mentioned in the previous question, quite a few men seem to prefer seeing a woman once a month. The women I’m seeing also tell me that many men want a monthly arrangement.
So why not date four women, meeting each of them once a month? I don’t think it would be too difficult to make that work.
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