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Nov 11, 2021 05:41
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Whenever I do, a lot of men tell me things like, “You’ll gain weight if you keep eating nothing but that.” Some even say, “How do you not gain weight when you’re eating all the time?” But basically, it’s always one or the other.
I think it’s probably because I’m constantly eating to an unusual degree (I have low blood sugar, so I feel unwell and get light-headed if I don’t have something sweet), but I’m slim, at 160 cm tall and weighing 42–43 kg. If I’m able to maintain this figure, why do they go out of their way to tell me I’ll gain weight? I could understand it a little if I had a somewhat fuller figure, but still.
It makes me want to snap back, “You men who are overweight even though you don’t eat constantly like I do—what on earth do you normally eat?”
5 answers
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
Did a generous (well-paying) papa (a male supporter) actually say that to you? That’s awful. He has no tact.
Try saying with a big, beaming smile, “Come on, papa—you’re kind of squishy too!!” When someone throws a nonsensical insult at you, just get through it by firing back with one of your own. They’re insulting you for no reason, after all.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
I’m only worried about getting cavities.
Every now and then, drink some water to rinse away the sugar.
Other
It may be annoying to hear, but if you genuinely have low blood sugar and feel like you constantly need to eat, you should probably see a doctor.
Also, depending on the time and place, always having candy or snacks in your mouth could come across as rude or give people a sloppy impression.
Either way, I think the man was simply expressing concern and didn’t mean any harm.
Akari
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
You’re far too thin, and if you’re really experiencing symptoms of low blood sugar, I think you should see a doctor.
When an overweight person tells you, “You’ll gain weight,” they may be speaking from personal experience.
I also had a fast metabolism when I was younger and stayed thin no matter how much I ate, but I started gaining weight around the time I turned 35.
Either way, you’re probably still young, so that man’s comment was completely unnecessary.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member—and a total loser.
You’re absolutely right.
Because I have such a strong personality, I inevitably attract a full entourage of haters. But I’ve been rejected ten times more than they have, worked and earned a hundred times harder, and prepared a thousand times more before going on dates with women.
Do they really think you can compete with Type A women using money alone? Though, of course, Mr. Win is the exception.
Even my ace works tirelessly behind the scenes for me.
I think you should keep eating tons of sweets in front of your papa.
And then coldly tell him:
“Short, fat, bald guys should just shut up and bring the allowance.”
You might even win enthusiastic support from all the hardcore submissive papas.
I feel like we could become good friends.