Judging from the answers, the male respondents here seem pretty confident. Is it safe to assume they’ve never been rejected by a female member?
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Or are there people whose respondent personas are perfect but who actually get rejected all the time? Conversely, are there people who make completely incoherent answers as respondents but have never been rejected by a female member?
I’m wondering whether I should make sure my words and actions always match so that I won’t get rejected by a papa (a male supporter), or whether it’s fine to be a genius devil like A⚫-san.
I’ve never been without a boyfriend, but of course I’ve been rejected before.
For the record, I’m a female member and a fan of A⚫-ri-san, who occasionally trashes other respondents from behind the safety of anonymity.
I’m Dai, a male member.
I won’t deny that I’m confident in myself.
That said, I have parted ways with women when we couldn’t agree on the allowance, so I suppose you could say I’ve been rejected because they couldn’t date me for the allowance I was offering.
There’s a rule that respondents shouldn’t write lies, so I believe I’m answering honestly.
By the way, outside the club, I’ve never confessed my feelings first and been turned down.
That said, I’ve never had a woman confess her feelings to me either.
That’s about the extent of it, haha.
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I’m Joe.
Things generally don’t go well for me. I’m constantly getting rejected. And of course, I’m not just talking about the club.
That’s precisely why I may have some things I understand, so I’ve joined the ranks of the answerers.
There’s no point bragging about this, but I was called a child prodigy until middle school and got into one of the schools known as the “Big Three.” I gave the speech as the representative of the incoming students, so I was probably number one. I used up all my luck in life right there. When I graduated, my beloved teacher, Mr. T, sighed and said, “If only the person who entered as number one in the history of the school had become the brains of Japan…”
There’s not much else to say about the rest of my life.
I’ve been registered with Universe Club for three years. I keep getting rejected, but I’ve still built quite a few relationships along the way.
For example, last night I got completely wasted at a yakitori restaurant in Ginza with a former Universe girl. I was shocked to hear that she’d changed boyfriends.
Today, I went mountain climbing on Mount Mitake with Osamu, Mika, and Princess Nana. After coming down, we got absolutely plastered at Sawanoi Garden. Then there was an unexpected fatal-accident delay on the Chuo Line, and I realized I wouldn’t make my reserved Shinkansen. That’s when Princess Nana made the devilish offer: “Want to stay at my place tonight?”
So here I am, having just transferred to the Yamanote Line and heading for Ebisu.
Even if you’re unpopular and a hopeless papa, things like this can still happen. This place really is terrifying.
Do be careful out there!
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member who thinks I may be overly confident myself.
Whether it’s through the club or elsewhere, if I meet someone and hit it off, we usually end up going on a date soon afterward. Since I have a strong personality, I only approach the women I’m truly interested in—usually beautiful women.
I’m often told things like:
“Your conversation and first impression are incredibly intense.”
“You’re different from other people.”
“I was surprised at how naturally I was able to talk with you without feeling shy at all! As expected.”
“You’re so lucky that I feel like some of your good luck is rubbing off on me.”
“Even though you’re quiet, your positive energy is amazing!!! Share a little more of it with me sometime—I’ll follow you anywhere.”
Outside the club, I use my instincts to filter people, so I honestly can’t remember being rejected since I turned 30.
At the club, I only continue seeing women when we have an absolutely perfect match and an especially strong connection. Since both sides are selective, there are countless women who don’t continue despite the number of offers. I’m sure there have also been several cases where they turned me down or things simply faded out naturally.
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Osaka here, one of the male members.
You’re cute, questioner lol.
Is it really that important whether you were dumped or did the dumping? Talking about it like it’s a win or loss takes me back to my school days—it’s kind of nostalgic.
It’s not like I want to say, “I’ve never been dumped!” I have been dumped before, so I can’t say that lol.
There’s that saying that the one who falls harder, or likes the other person more, loses. But I’ve never been able to control myself and stop myself from falling for someone, so before I know it, I’ve already lost. The moment you start thinking, “I’m not going to fall for them!” you’ve probably already fallen. It’s a tough one lol.
That said, I do think it’s reasonable to approach things from a business perspective and make an effort not to get dumped by your papa (a male supporter). It sounds easy, but it really isn’t, so improving those skills and instincts might also help you get better at dealing with people in general.
If that happens, your interest may shift from whether you dumped someone or got dumped to what comes next.
Good luck!
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I’m Aya, a female member.
“Genius devil” is such a powerful phrase—I love it. It’s wonderful.
I was treated terribly by a man once in my personal life, and ever since then, I feel like I can’t be with a man unless I’m the one in control.
Ideally, I want to love a man while still keeping him under my control. I feel like that’s working out well with my current papas.
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I’m in Seattle.
There are plenty of Type B arrangements that never progress beyond that.
I’ve only been ghosted twice.
Rather than becoming part of Japan’s intellectual elite, I’d rather choose a life where I’m kept by a PJ.
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I’m a male member, Basil.
In about one-third of cases, things didn’t progress. A few times, the woman looked so different in person from her profile that I chose not to invite her out again.
Including cases where the terms didn’t work out, it’s almost always been the woman who turned me down.
After things did progress, it’s been roughly an even split between her ending it and me ending it.
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I used to specialize in Type B, but now I specialize in Type A. I’m a man who keeps losing.
As an answerer, I’m hopelessly illogical and incoherent, with inappropriate wording and seemingly everyone around me as an enemy. Yet at dating clubs, I’ve never had a woman turn down an adult relationship with me, nor have I ever been cut off by a woman afterward. Somehow, not even once.
Of course, I assume that’s because of the power of money.
*My allowance is high to begin with, so I’ve never once failed to make an arrangement because the allowance was insufficient.
Ah—no, that’s a lie. I was cut off once. One woman ended things because she was moving overseas. At the airport, she asked me on the spot to become the papa (a male supporter) of her best friend, whom she had brought with her.
I’m sure this answer will earn me even more haters (fun).
Sorry for the blatant boasting, but I’m aiming to be number one in the universe when it comes to the motivation and effort I put into “preparing” before a date. Dates scare me if my preparation isn’t perfect.
I don’t want to make even a single mistake on a date.
Right now, I’m only making offers to Type A women, with the goal of having a woman who’s truly a Type A initiate an adult relationship with me. I’m treating it like my graduation exam from dating clubs, though I might make a full circle and move on to Type D.
It’s not that I’m confident in my unfiltered self—I’m confident in my preparation.
P.S.
I love taking on tall mountains, so if we’re talking about being rejected in my private life, I’ve been rejected more times than I can count.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
What does it actually mean when a woman rejects you through a dating club?
Does being blocked or suddenly stopped getting replies count as being rejected?
That’s never happened to me, by the way.
There have been several times when we couldn’t agree on the allowance, so we just had dinner and went our separate ways.
Update:
I’ve also tried to pursue women outside the dating club and wasn’t able to have sex twice—once with a girl I liked in elementary school, and once with a Ginza hostess.
Update 2:
> Hmm, did you ask her to have sex when you were in elementary school?
No, I only told her I wanted to date her, and she turned me down. Sorry for getting your hopes up.
Some Ginza hostesses are pretty interesting—some even have mats for mat play in their bathrooms at home.
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