I’ve had the same papa (a male supporter) for a year.
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Until now, we never did anything special for events like Christmas or Valentine’s Day, and we didn’t even know each other’s birthdays. So I assumed this papa was the type who’d rather skip things like that.
But recently, I happened to find out during a conversation that his birthday was coming up. I sent him a small LINE gift on the day, and he replied with a long message saying how happy he was, so I was a little surprised.
How can you tell the difference between a papa who would be happy to celebrate occasions like birthdays and Christmas and one who would prefer you to simply skip them?
I’m Dai, a male member.
Just because I’m not interested in celebrating events doesn’t mean I wouldn’t be genuinely happy to receive a gift from a woman.
I hope your relationship continues to go smoothly!
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I’m Ayase Nana ♡
Rather than ignoring her, I think the LINE gift or message you sent is more than enough.
Some people may feel uncomfortable if anything tangible is left behind…
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I’m Osaka, a male member.
That’s nice. She remembered your birthday from a casual conversation, and I’m sure she was happy that you took the initiative. Since both people often try not to pry into each other’s private lives, I’d be happy about it too, if I were in your position.
I’m used to being told, “Give it to me first,” though, lol.
A lot of papas are probably caught off guard when they’re given something. But I think anyone would be genuinely happy about it, wouldn’t they?
I don’t think it’s all that important to try to figure out what kind of person she is.
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I’ll answer too—Maezawa from the CEO’s office.
First, I think it’s best to approach this assuming there aren’t any papas who genuinely want you to ignore their birthday if possible.
It’s true that most men probably feel they’re too old to celebrate birthdays and would rather you not make a big deal out of them.
But separate from that, they can still appreciate the thought behind it. What makes them happy is knowing that you cared enough to do something.
So even if they think, “I’m too old for birthday celebrations,” they’ll probably still be pleased to receive your kindness.
The same goes for events like Christmas. Even if they feel they’re past that stage in life, they’ll still be happy if you show that you care.
So as long as you focus on expressing your feelings, I don’t think you even need to figure out who wants to be left alone.
Besides, someone who truly wanted you to ignore their birthday probably wouldn’t tell you when you asked.
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