How much time, effort, and money should I invest in my appearance?
I’m a 55-year-old man who’s dating a Black Label woman I met through a club. There’s a slight feeling that I won’t be able to keep the relationship going unless I can keep up with her high beauty standards, so I’m starting to think maybe I should make more of an effort.
I’m Dai, a male member.
I don’t spend any money at all, but I have no problem dating blacklisted women.
The only thing I do is get my tartar removed regularly.
Just be mindful of your smell as a matter of etiquette.
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I’m Ayase Nana ♡
First of all… if you have money to spare:
- Medical hair removal
- Cavity treatment
- Bad-breath treatment
- Manicures
- Hair-loss treatment
- Hair salon (cuts and coloring)
- After your bath, lightly towel yourself off and apply cream right away
- Go to the gym
- Do squats and sit-ups at home
- I can give you an oil massage if you’d like to call me over
Ah, so busy. If you spend this much money, you should be able to become handsome.
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I’m in Seattle.
I get my teeth cleaned three times a year. Every day, I apply toner and Nivea Creme from the blue tin all over my body—age shows on your elbows and heels, after all.
It doesn’t cost much, but it does take some time now and then.
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I’m Basil, a male member.
I’m in my late 50s, but I have absolutely no interest in grooming or beauty. I see it as a waste of time and money, so I put those resources toward dates and hobbies instead.
When I meet women, I only worry about basic etiquette, like brushing my teeth. As long as I maintain the bare minimum, I’ve had no trouble finding women who are happy to meet me.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here—I’ll answer as well.
I’ve revised part of the question.
I feel that in the past, men in their 50s were expected to win people over with their personality and character.
But times are changing, so I think spending money on grooming and beauty could be worthwhile too.
What I’m more interested in is which would be more effective: investing that money in yourself or giving it to women.
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Even now, whenever I go for an oil massage, I’m often asked, “What kind of skincare do you do to have skin this smooth?” I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
Women have always complimented my voice and skin, saying things like, “Your skin is so fair—it’s even nicer than a woman’s,” “I’m jealous,” “It’s so smooth,” and “Our skin feels compatible.” I guess my face has started getting compliments too as I’ve gotten older…
I found it strange that people asked me, so I said, “Are there really people with such bad skin?” They replied, “Of course. Some people don’t feel nice to the touch, and some aren’t very pleasant to touch.” I wouldn’t know, since I’ve never seen other men, but…
Apparently, my skin is exceptionally nice, and I’m supposedly odorless, tasteless, and free of any aging-related odor.
There’s probably only so much you can do to improve your skin type through skincare, but you can achieve an odorless, tasteless state by visiting a dental clinic specializing in bad breath. At the questioner’s age, simply going to one of these clinics could make such a dramatic difference that it changes your whole world. I imagine it would probably eliminate all your worries and anxiety…
P.S.
If you have cavities, periodontal disease, or anything similar, please have those treated at a regular dentist before going. A proper bad-breath specialist won’t provide that kind of treatment.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
Between dermatology treatments, esthetic services, dental care, supplements, and hair salon visits, I spend around ¥50,000–¥70,000 a month.
I also recommended my dermatology clinic to my papa, and he’s had various treatments there. It seems he spends around ¥800,000–¥1,000,000 a year.
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I’m a male member—and honestly, I’m one of the losers.
- Full-body medical hair removal
- Extensive dental work
- Removing dark spots and dullness
I’m spending almost as much as women do.
Dental work is probably the most expensive. Each tooth costs around ¥800,000, and I’m planning to have about 10 treated, so I’ve set aside a budget of ¥8 million.
*I travel to Tokyo for my dental work.*
Of course, I’m doing it for women too, but it’s also for myself, so personally, I think it’s worth spending money on.
If you lose muscle in your legs and your ability to chew with your own teeth weakens, your whole body suffers, right?
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