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What would be a cute response to a papa (a male supporter) or boyfriend who makes jokes I’d rather not hear, like “Maybe I’ll cheat” or “Maybe I’ll go wild with another girl”?

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・Go ahead and have your fun!! (with a sulky emoji) ・No, I don’t want you to (T_T) ・Then I’ll go have some fun too! That’s about all I could think of. I’d love to hear what both men and women think!
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I finally understand what “yandere” means. Aya intentionally acts yandere for her papa (a male supporter)—that’s kind of terrifying... A defeated man.
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here—I’ll answer too. Since one-line questions tend to get called “not really questions,” have you started writing “bait” this time? I can’t imagine a man saying something like that, and I’m also wondering, “Was that really one of the possible replies?” That’s the impression I get. If this was a genuine question because you’re truly troubled, I’m sorry.
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member. Personally, I think I would have ended things before saying something like that.
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Wow, I’ve never been told that before! I wonder if they only say things like that to certain people? Marika
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I’m Aya, a female member. It depends on the papa and my personality. In my case, I know that people like the contrast of a normally serious, refined woman going crazy with jealousy, so I satisfy them by showing an extreme yandere side that’s enough to make the papa back off: “What?! No way!! If you did something like that, I might track her down and kill her.” “I’d be devastated, you know?? I feel like I’m going to die just imagining it.” I don’t find it troublesome, either. The other day, my handsome older papa said he was going out for drinks, so we had this conversation: Me: “Hey, which girl is going to get the sales credit?” Papa: “I think it goes toward the whole bar’s sales.” Me: “Really?? None of it goes to a specific girl!?” Papa: “You really hate the idea of my money going to other women, huh? lol You’re such a woman through and through.” Me: “Did I give myself away? I mean, if you give money to hostesses, they’re just going to waste it on something anyway!! I absolutely hate it!!” Papa: “Well, that’s true. lol” He was grinning happily, so I think it went well. So, questioner, try to gauge how much affection your papa wants, and express it right up to the point before it starts feeling too heavy.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. When a guy says, “Maybe I should cheat,” or “Maybe I should go wild with other girls,” I don’t think he’s joking—I’d take it as a yellow flag. At least, if I were to say something like that, it would mean I had some serious dissatisfaction and was considering breaking up. The kind of reply I find cute is, “Don’t say that. Did I do something wrong?”
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