Tips Nov 9, 2021 12:54

What does it feel like to help the person you’re seeing find someone to marry?

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Even if I trust them, I can’t understand how anyone could marry—or even simply date—someone introduced by a person they met through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). Just thinking about it makes me feel uncomfortable.
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ジョー・ルビコン
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🏅 手コキ評論家
入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Joe, a male member. I absolutely love being told by women, “You’re disgusting!” So, if I may be so bold, I’ll answer your question. I’ve never actively looked for a marriage partner, but there have been cases where I introduced people and they ended up getting married. They were happy, so Joe was happy too, lol. This is somewhat beside the point, but “You’re disgusting!” is a compliment to someone like Joe. Do be careful!
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フラグメーカー
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🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m a columnist who seems to have a knack for making things happen. I’ve given relationship advice to people involved with married partners, saying, “That guy is probably a good one! I think you’d be fine marrying him.” There are two cases where they actually went on to marry those men. But actively searching for a spouse for the person you’re dating yourself? That doesn’t really make sense to me, lol.
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I absolutely love getting roasted by people who aren’t even here♡ Creepy, right? Absolutely pathetic. Hehe. What a loser. P.S. Is anyone else like me? lol Better luck next time, Kazu♡ P.P.S. I help almost all of my monthly arrangement partners find generous (well-paying) papas besides me. Is that crazy too?? P.P.P.S. Honestly, I find it a little harder to understand why anyone would go out of their way to do something that other people can already understand lol
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It’d be even creepier if he had her marry the person he introduced her to, while continuing their relationship as her papa (a male supporter). It sounds like something straight out of a manga. Eww. Marika
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. I don’t understand it either. It’s creepy when someone tries to meddle so actively in another person’s life. P.S. Wait, is this about “Makeotoko”? P.P.S. Sorry, I haven’t been reading Makeotoko’s answers much lately, so I didn’t realize. Everyone has different values, so if the other person is happy, isn’t that what matters?
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