How do you decide on the allowance for an adult relationship (intimate)? I understand that both people’s circumstances matter, but would it be okay to suggest to a papa (a male supporter) a system of ¥30,000 for someone in their 30s and ¥40,000 for someone in their 40s?
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By the way, if the papa (a male supporter) were 70, how much do you think would be a reasonable amount to ask for?
I’m Dai, a male member.
If you’re comfortable with that approach, I don’t see a problem with it.
Once a papa (a male supporter) is in his 70s, he’ll likely be turned down more often because of his age, so I think he may be willing to agree even to a higher allowance.
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I’m Kamihikoki, a male member.
I think it’s better to keep that thought to yourself rather than suggest it.
Men usually pick up on those things anyway. If you’re starting at 70, they may wonder why you’re suddenly asking for a steep increase, or why the allowance stays the same even without an adult relationship.
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Hiroshi Tachi, 71 — allowance: 1
Junji Takada, 74 — allowance: 3
Garigari Garikson, 35 — allowance: 8
Inada from Einstein, 36 — allowance: 8
If you were the one asking, who would you choose?
Garigari Garikson??
What do the women here think?
Who would you like to date?
*Inacchan might put up a good fight (￣▽￣;)*
A losing man
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I’m Aya, a female member.
Choosing based on the man’s age is an interesting way to look at it. But quite a few papas probably find it harder to win women over as they get older—unless they can rely on their money—so in a way, it might make sense.
That said, if you say that directly to the papas, it defeats the purpose. They’ll just think you’re being rude.
This is only how things worked in my case, but I felt uncomfortable putting a price on myself, so I went along with whatever amount the other person offered.
What a man is willing to pay is essentially the price he puts on his own desire, so it gave me a good sense of what kind of values he had. I ended up continuing to see the men who seemed to have a fairly realistic view of their own desires.
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