Are any of you dating someone in the same line of work?
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For example, a doctor and a nurse, a pilot and a flight attendant, people in finance with someone else in finance, and so on...
I’m worried about what would happen if our identities were exposed and whether we could continue working at the same workplace if that happened, so I’m unsure whether to continue seeing this man.
Of course, I don’t think he would tell anyone at work or anything like that, but...
I’d appreciate your advice.
I’m Joe, a male member.
This may be true in any industry, but Joe’s line of work is particularly small, so I do hesitate to make offers.
I also never make offers to women in the same profession as my daughter.
The biggest surprises I’ve had were discovering that a woman I’d made an offer to was the daughter of a man I knew, and, on another occasion, visiting a junior colleague’s company and finding that the woman who came in to serve tea was a registered member. I nearly knocked the tea over.
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I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s Office, and I’ll answer as well.
> I’m worried about whether we could continue working at the same workplace if we were found out.
At first, your question focused on whether you worked in the same line of work, but more than the type of job itself—
if you work at the same place, there’s a possibility that the other person could expose you if problems arise, which could put you at a disadvantage.
So I think it’s best to avoid getting involved with someone from the same workplace.
> I’m unsure whether I should continue my relationship with this man.
It could be dangerous if you don’t end things carefully, so I think you should bring up the breakup in a way that doesn’t provoke him.
That said, if you work at the same place, it seems highly likely that even ending the relationship could be difficult.
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He chose me because he felt more comfortable being with someone in the same line of work. We’ve been seeing each other for over a year.
Even with people in the same industry, I’ll accept offers if they’re from a different area. I avoid people nearby, though, because it’s scary when they might be a friend of a friend.
Marika
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I make a point of not asking women I meet through an exclusive dating club about their private lives, so I have no idea where they work or anything like that.
The one woman I like most volunteered all her personal information, so I know everything about her. But with the others, I have no idea who they are or where they come from. All I really know is their first names.
A loser.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
I work in a completely different field, though（笑）. My profession isn’t exactly common, so I’m not too worried. Still, things can make their way around and come to light from unexpected places, so I’m careful about how I go about it.
Please take every possible precaution when it comes to managing your risks.
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