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Nov 7, 2021 10:31
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I feel like I’m getting too emotionally invested. What should I do?
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m columnist Fuu.
That’s dangerous territory (*_*)
Find a boyfriend you like more
and a papa (a male supporter) you like just as much,
and keep your emotions—or rather, your balance—in check ^_^
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
If you acted like that, I’d probably end up increasing your allowance. That’s a good thing.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
Having a boyfriend yet expecting that level of commitment from your papa sounds like a hassle.
If your papa has a wife and children, it would be wiser to accept only his affection without disrupting his family.
I think wanting everything can mean losing everything.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
You’re really in love, aren’t you?
I’m jealous.
Even toward the woman I care about most, only about 30% of what I feel is romantic love—the other 70% is more like a father’s affection.
I wish I could fall for someone as deeply as you have.
—A defeated man
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Why does it feel so difficult? I think it would be helpful to face your feelings and consider what you really want.