This is Nana Ayase ♡
It sounds like a wonderful man really likes you!
If you get to see him again, be sure to tell him how truly grateful you are, too.
I’m so jealous~ (๑⃙⃘♥‿♥๑⃙⃘)
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
When you have some financial leeway, you naturally want to do something for others. For example, if someone says they’d like some spending money, you might think, “I suppose that much is okay.”
In my case, this only applies to the women I’m seeing. Although we usually arrange things on a pay-per-meeting basis, I adjust it so the monthly total stays the same even when there’s nothing intimate. That way, the women’s finances are more stable, and the relationship works better too—or at least that’s how I see it.
I’m a loser male member who has shifted his main focus to A-type women.
The answer to your question is: “Because I want to show the composure of a mature man.” And because it feels good.
Here’s how I support A-type women:
Pay-per-meeting: I pay 30,000–50,000 yen per dinner date, meet a few times a month, and give them around 100,000–150,000 yen in allowance each month.
Monthly arrangement: I pay a fixed 100,000 yen and have dinner together a few times a month. There are also months when we don’t meet at all.
I’m in a pay-per-meeting arrangement with an A-type girl I met through Universe, and I also have one office-worker I met privately whom I give 100,000 yen a month without any adult relationship. Technically, she’s A-type too.
The monthly arrangement feels better. Even when we don’t meet, I get a little intoxicated by the fact that I’m still giving her the promised allowance—100,000 yen.
Like, “How do you like my mature-man composure? You’re going to fall for me, right?”
In reality, she’s not falling for me at all, but let’s set that aside.
I’m not smart enough to put this into words well, but when you keep doing something, it becomes a habit, and before you know it, it becomes part of your personality.
It’s the same with my “ace”—I give her 1,000,000 yen a month even if we don’t meet once, and I give my A-type office-worker 100,000 yen a month even when we don’t meet.
At first, it starts as an act of forcing yourself to be generous. But if you keep doing it, it becomes a habit. In other words, you get used to it.
Once you’re used to it, it becomes “this is who I am,” and that mature-man composure starts to come naturally.
And once you can project that composure, women start finding you attractive. It’s strange how that works.
To all the papas reading this:
Try having a month where you don’t meet your monthly-arrangement partner even once. Then keep it up.
You’ll develop the composure of a mature man and become incredibly popular.
Or so I’ve heard.
I’m Kamihikoki, a male member.
I think it’s about feeling connected, even when you’re not meeting in person.
Being relied on—not just financially—is especially gratifying, and that’s what makes the relationship last.
Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here, answering your question as well.
> Why would someone give you money even though you haven’t been able to meet?
I think he probably likes you and wants to help you out if you’re having a hard time.
Also, if the reason you haven’t met is something like COVID, he may be giving you money because he expects that you’ll be able to meet again eventually.
Of course, the truth is something only that man himself knows.
