Tips Nov 5, 2021 16:34

When you’re having sex, are you constantly comparing her to other girls?

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Like, “That girl was tighter,” or “Her breasts were bigger,” or “She was more fun to talk to,” and so on. What else do you compare?
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I’m Marika, a female member. When I’m intimate with someone, I don’t think about other men at all. What you’re talking about is something I consider when making plans for the next date.
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member. When I’m with her, I don’t think about any other women. What you’re describing is something I think about on the way home.
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I’m Tetsu, a male member. When I’m doing it, I don’t have the mental space to think about anything else. I’m completely focused on the woman in front of me.
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Fuu
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m columnist Fuu. When it comes to H, don’t women tend to talk much more openly about the details at girls’ nights? Things like size and thickness, foreplay, oral skills, how long it lasted… Depending on the person, I hear it can turn into a full-on tell-all session. Though I suppose it varies from person to person. Men don’t usually discuss the details of H with others. They might brag about having been with a woman in her twenties, though. Questioner, don’t you make comparisons? It’s only natural to develop a pecking order among your papas. I treat my monthly partners with care and respect as people, but honestly, part of the fun is being able to compare them. The differences are what make it interesting—that’s what I feel is so appealing about dating clubs. The things I compare include: ・Looks and figure ・Tightness ・Satisfaction during H ・How responsive she is ・How physically affectionate she is in private ・How quickly she replies to messages ・Conversation and consideration When a monthly arrangement ends and I make a new offer, I look for the next partner by comparing her with the previous one. It’s surprisingly hard to find someone who surpasses my current partner. Until Fuu gets cut loose, I’m in a stable period. P.S. As someone who likes from behind, I agree with Shingori about the waistline. I want a defined waist!
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バジル
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Basil, a male member. While we’re together, I’m focused on the woman in front of me, so I don’t compare her with anyone else. But afterward, I do rank them.
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I’m Osaka, a male member. There’s probably no comparing while you’re actually doing it, lol. But of course, people inevitably compare each other, right? That doesn’t mean I give them scores or rate them, though. Everyone has a unique charm that only they possess, and that may be what leaves the strongest impression. A certain remark at a certain moment, that smile—if it stays in your memory, you may never forget it for the rest of your life. In a way, that’s pretty sinful, lol. Just like men never forget their first love, there are things we remember forever. That has nothing to do with scores or comparisons, lol.
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I put all my effort into satisfying the woman I’m with, so I have zero time to compare her to anyone else. What a loser.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. I don’t compare women with one another. Besides, there isn’t enough difference in how tight women are to make meaningful comparisons. I’ve had sex with dozens of women I met through the club, but there was only one who really stood out as being especially tight. The enjoyment of conversation varies from person to person, so that isn’t something you can really compare either.
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I’m Shingo Lee, a columnist. I don’t really compare them that much. There are just too many things to compare—it’s a hassle, isn’t it? At most, I’ll compare a few things that really appeal to that person’s particular preferences. Personally, I only pay attention to: - How defined her waist is from behind - How easily she reaches climax - Whether she squirts Other than that, I don’t really care. I’m fully focused on the moment, so I don’t have the余裕 to compare anything else.
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シアトル
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m in Seattle. The last conversation might have been making comparisons. The previous two aren’t particularly well-off. Once it starts, my brain drops to an IQ of 30. Feels sooo good.
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