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Nov 5, 2021 10:55
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あや
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I’m Aya, one of the female members.
Marika’s idea of giving him a bottle of alcohol is nice too. It has such a sophisticated, grown-up woman vibe that even I, as a woman, feel a little tipsy just hearing about it. Sounds lovely.
Personally, depending on the papa’s personality, I might say, “I’m treating you today!” and take him to his regular Chinese restaurant—it’s inexpensive, about ¥5,000 for two. The key is choosing a place he frequents. If it’s somewhere new, there’s a risk the food won’t suit his taste and things could get awkward. At a familiar place, he’ll feel more relaxed and comfortable chatting there.
When you’re talking, be sure to let him talk plenty about his accomplishments. Compliment him generously during that time. Apparently, when a woman is enthusiastic like that, it comes across as cute and endearing.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Sorry this isn’t a direct answer, but from experience, I think “anything” can be a dangerous word.
Hearing “anything” feels good and gets your hopes up, but the person saying it often doesn’t mean it to that extent.
I’ve had many experiences where I eventually realized it didn’t really mean “anything.” I understood that was probably how it was, but I still felt a little disappointed.
🏅 パパ活歴8年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a columnist.
She sounds wonderful.
I’m jealous of her papa (male supporter).
I completely agree with Seattle’s comment.
Because he’s been working so hard and deserves it:
“Today, I’ll do whatever you say.”
“Today, you can have your way with me.”
Those words are unbelievably powerful! I’d love to hear that myself!!
フラグメーカー
Male
Column
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
I’ll let you rest your head on my lap and stroke your hair.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
If you say something like, “I’ll do whatever you want today, hehe,” any decent man you’ve been seeing regularly would probably come up with something appropriate.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member who’s probably on the losing end here.
Come to think of it, the only one who properly celebrates things like this with me is my favorite girl...
That’s probably why I end up increasing her allowance...
Sorry this doesn’t really answer your question m(｡>__<｡)m
Even just a single line on LINE or by email makes me incredibly happy.
The reason is that when you succeed in business, people get jealous, so congratulations don’t even come from acquaintances.
You could treat her to a meal within your budget, give her a handkerchief, or do anything, really.
My favorite girl (her name could be written in just three characters, but it’s so long!) gave me a beer glass. I was incredibly happy (T＿T)
You don’t have to overthink it.
If you’re a papa who wants a long-term relationship and you’re a “good papa,” you could even say:
“You don’t need to accept your allowance today. Please let me celebrate with you♡”
I think she’d be genuinely happy.
Some of the other respondents might criticize you and say, “No freebies!” though, haha.
茉莉花
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Other
Aya might be especially good at this kind of question. I’ll add anything else I think of.
Thank you for your question.
I see someone every week, but our last date was canceled because he said, “I have an important competition, and there’s a meeting that night regardless of whether the results are good or bad.”
I haven’t asked about the results, but if they were good, I’m thinking of bringing along a bottle for us to enjoy together next time.
We met during the pandemic, so we have our meals in his room.
Marika