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Nov 5, 2021 00:32
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I’m Shingo Lee (Shingori), a column writer.
A man’s long message usually takes less than a minute to read aloud, right? That’s because he imagines meeting you and simply types out the things he would actually say in conversation.
Women tend to condense a long conversation into just one or two lines on LINE. Once it becomes three lines, it already feels long, doesn’t it?
Men use LINE much like a conversation, while women use it more for the pauses and spacing between messages than for conveying everything accurately.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s Office will answer as well.
I deleted everything except the question.
Personal opinions and attacks on specific individuals are generally hidden, but since there was a question at the end, I left that part visible.
Ah, but the question was only one line… Maybe it would have been better to hide it too.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
It’s great that you’re in a position where you can choose your papa.
The reason he sends you long messages on LINE but barely talks when you meet in person is simply that he isn’t used to interacting with younger women.
Rather than making fun of him, I think you should teach him a few things.
Personally, I only use LINE when the other person contacts me or when arranging a date.
When we meet in person, I do plenty of talking.
Other
I’m Taro, a male member.
When it comes down to it, you can usually read what the other person really means—they just don’t say it out loud. I imagine it’s pretty common for people to exchange insincere LINE messages like, “You’re kind of a hassle, but I don’t have anyone else, so I guess I’ll keep you around.” It’s basically the same as the flirty routine you often see in the nightlife business. It isn’t genuine, but by doing it, both sides can make sure things continue, so I think of it as a kind of protocol.
By the way, how are we supposed to read “負け男”? I assumed it was “Makeotoko,” or maybe “Makeo,” like a person’s name. But could it be “Makedan,” reading 男 with its on-yomi pronunciation, like Hige Dan...? If so, adding “-san” would be inappropriate. I think we should call him Mr. Makedan.
Sorry, I’ve been thrown off ever since watching Shinjo’s press conference... I’m going to bed now.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a losing dog of a male member.
I can’t remember who it was, but one of the male respondents referred to me as “Mr. Loser” in an answer. It hit me right in the funny bone, and I burst out laughing, lol.
Lately, I’m gradually moving away from specializing in Type B and becoming a Type A specialist, so if you’re Type A, questioner, I’ll make a special reverse offer to you.
I’d like to try a letter date and have you verbally abuse me.
As you said, I’m trash.
I suppose my Ace doesn’t contact me because I’m trash.
I’m perfectly happy being nothing more than an ATM for women, or a “backup papa” from a woman’s perspective.
The reason my allowance is so high is atonement (look it up).
I’m aware that I’m both trash and a hypocrite, so at the very least, I feel I should offer a generous allowance.
Ace is incredibly popular—she’s the kind of girl who gets constantly scouted by talent agencies—so even without me, she could have countless papas if she wanted to.
Actually, she may already have a whole lot of papas. After all, she only meets me twice a month and never contacts me.
I’m sure she could make hundreds of millions through papa-katsu alone.
I’m pathetic, aren’t I?
My true lover is, in the end, just a business arrangement.
I’m the worst kind of trash, someone who never had the right to love a woman in the first place.
> Why is it that older guys barely talk when you meet them in person, but send incredibly long messages on LINE?
I think it’s because our breath stinks. I have full dentures, and my mouth reeks, so I try not to talk in front of women. With LINE, they can’t tell my breath smells, so I end up sending long messages. Though I can’t use LINE now anyway...
■Taro
I’m secretly a fan of Taro♪
Mac calls me “Makeotoko,” but officially, it’s “Makeo.”
But I really like “Makedan,” so can I change it to “Makedan”? lol
Edit:
Oh, the personal insults aimed at me in the latter half were deleted. How boring. I absolutely love being roasted, lol.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
It just so happens that the questioner’s papa (male supporter) is someone who sends long messages on LINE.
Not every papa (male supporter) here sends long messages.
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
It’s true that you can tell he’s seeing multiple women. I wonder why that is.
As for the question, “Why is it that older guys barely talk when you meet them in person, but send ridiculously long messages on LINE?”—that doesn’t apply in my case.
Messages from my papa are basically just one line, and he talks a lot when we meet. Honestly, being with a papa who can’t keep a conversation going would be painful for me…
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
Normally, I think it’s better to reply with shorter messages than the girl does.
Wouldn’t it be better to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) with a man like that?
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
It’s kind of sad seeing someone start barking over a question in the Q&A box (lol).
I guess there are men like that, too. I can’t be bothered, so I keep my answers short.