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Nov 5, 2021 00:01
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🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
The adult relationship lasted a little over six months at most. If you include the friendship afterward, there’s one woman I’ve been seeing for about four years.
She got married and had a child, and we’re going to meet up again soon for the first time in a while. I was hoping things might get a little steamy, but since she指定 her parents’ house as the meeting place, it doesn’t look like that’s going to happen ^^;
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office will answer as well.
I think it’s similar to asking, “What’s the longest you’ve stayed friends with someone?”
If you hit it off, it can last a long time. If you don’t, you’ll probably part ways somewhere along the way.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
I’ve been doing this for three years, and I’m still continuing. Since I stopped making offers once we started seeing each other, I can’t really calculate an average.
I’ve achieved what I wanted from joining the dating club and I’m happy with things. She doesn’t seem to feel particularly uncomfortable around me either, so I feel like this may continue for years, just as it has for Kamihikōki.
I do tell her, “If you get a boyfriend, you should go be with him…” But whether she doesn’t want one or simply can’t find one, there’s no sign of that happening.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
Sorry, I’m the type who gets bored easily.
First of all, there are many women I part ways with after having an adult relationship just once.
When things continue for two or more meetings, six months seems to be a common point where we part ways. If it’s only about looks, bodies, and sex, I feel that’s about the limit.
That said, there are also women I’ve continued seeing for longer than that. With them, it feels like I’m drawn to who they are on the inside rather than just the sex.
Other
I’m Taro, a male member.
The longest I’ve continued seeing a woman from a dating club is four years. Many arrangements end after the first meeting, so the average might be much shorter. Relationships are generally like that, but if you make it to three meetings, things tend to continue for quite a while.
Also, I think meeting a second time within about two weeks makes it more likely that things will continue to a third meeting. I hope that helps answer your question.
Incidentally, I’ve never continued seeing a papa.
Other
I’m Tetsu, a male member.
The woman I’ve been seeing the longest was the second woman I made an offer to after joining, so it’s been about two and a half years. She got married during that time, but we’re still seeing each other.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
As friends, I’ve had two relationships lasting 10 years, one lasting 8 years, and one lasting 7 years.
I’ve been with the club for three years, so I’ve had one arrangement lasting three years and two lasting just under two years.
If it lasts six months, it seems likely to continue for several years as something more than friendship. Whether someone makes it past the six-month mark seems to be the turning point.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
I’ve had girlfriends outside the club for over 20 years, so I’ll probably stay with them as they are until I die.
I haven’t been in the club for quite two years yet, but I’ve firmly established relationships with one girl I’ve been seeing for nearly two years and another for almost a year. We’ve also built connections beyond papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), so, just like with the women outside the club, I think we’ll probably continue as we are until just before death—or until I’m senile.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
It really depends on the people involved, so I don’t think you can calculate an average.
Even if you asked, “How long do people in a typical relationship usually date before breaking up?” the answer would still be that it depends on the individuals.
The same goes for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), since everyone’s circumstances are different.
In my case, my longest-standing relationship has lasted five years. That’s an especially long time.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
The longest I’ve continued seeing someone through the club is about a year and a half—the woman I offered to meet soon after joining. We’re still going strong and continue to break our previous record.
There aren’t many women I want to see again after meeting them once, so most arrangements end after a single date. But the women I’ve met two or three times tend to stick around for anywhere from three months to half a year.