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Nov 4, 2021 15:49
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Other
I’m Tetsu, a male member.
It’s because, from her perspective, you’re not a priority. If she were really into you, she’d reply as soon as possible—even if she were at work or otherwise busy.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member, Paper Airplane.
If that bothers you, it simply means she isn’t interested in you.
That said, various power dynamics can exist between men and women, so it’s not always that straightforward…
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here as well.
People hardly use email these days, so if you send a message by email, isn’t it only natural that the reply may be delayed?
By the way, what’s the problem with a slow reply?
Just talk plenty when you meet in person.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m columnist Fuu.
If I had to guess:
- She’s living with her boyfriend and doesn’t want him or her papa (a male supporter) to find out, so she keeps her LINE chats hidden and only checks them occasionally.
- She has so many friends, friends-with-benefits, and papas that she can’t get through all her LINE messages.
- She has a lot of papas and replies in order of priority, starting with the ones she values most.
- She can’t check her phone while she’s at work, and at home she’s around her family, boyfriend, and papa, so she can’t check then either.
- She’s simply a slow replier—or just can’t be bothered.
That’s just Fuu’s speculation, though…
P.S.
Oh! Is it not LINE, but email?
If so, maybe she simply hasn’t checked it.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member, Dai.
I think replies tend to be slower when the LINE messages aren’t particularly important.
But when it comes to arranging plans, don’t they usually reply fairly quickly?
If even those messages get slow replies, then unfortunately, the person asking may be someone they’d rather meet as little as possible.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
Some women have 1,000 unread messages, so she’s probably one of those people.
My male friends usually reply pretty quickly. I have plenty of free time, too.
Other
I’m Shingo Lee, a column writer.
It’s because you’re low on their list of priorities. In other words, you’re simply not attractive enough to them.
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
Unless she’s someone who absolutely can’t use her phone while at work—like at Toyota or in certain departments—the reason is probably simply that she finds it a hassle.
Put more bluntly, she likely sees you as someone she doesn’t need to reply to right away. There’s a good chance she responds immediately to people she considers important.
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flagmaker, a columnist.
It’s because she’s the type who takes a while to reply.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member—and definitely the one who’s losing out.
My absolute favorite girl is by far the slowest to reply out of all the women I’m seeing.
It’s totally normal for her to go a whole week without contacting me. I’ll put my hand on my heart and think long and hard about it.
But recently, she’s emailed me twice, about once every three days, and I actually started worrying that maybe she wasn’t feeling well because of the change in seasons.
The fastest responder among the women I’m seeing is an A-type girl.
All you male members out there—the future is A-type girls!