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Nov 4, 2021 11:21
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Even single men.
I’d be happy to hear someone disagree, though…
Have you ever wanted to quit?
Thanks.
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the President’s Office here, too.
> Isn’t it 99.98% impossible for men to quit papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)?
No, that’s not right.
Quite a few men do quit papa-katsu. If 99.98% of men never quit, Universe Club’s revenue would be about ten times what it is now.
Some find a good woman, some get bored, some realize it’s no longer a good fit, and others can no longer afford it.
Daddies quit for all sorts of reasons.
Men with plenty of money and no financial concerns may continue for a long time. But once they find the right woman, they no longer need to make offers, so they quit papa-katsu.
They may come back after ending things with a woman, but they aren’t doing papa-katsu during that period.
Then again, papa-katsu refers to women looking for a papa (a male supporter), so can men really do papa-katsu?
The Japanese is starting to sound a little strange.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
I don’t think so, at least for now.
I’ll probably retire when spending time with women stops being fun.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
I’m not sure how long I’ll be able to continue, but I don’t think I’ll stop anytime soon. Still, I do think about various things.
First of all, lately I’ve noticed that the women I’m seeing are reaching their prime, and even to me, they look more beautiful than when we first started seeing each other.
On the other hand, I’m getting older, and when I compare photos from when we first met, it’s clear that I’ve aged—the gray in my hair and the condition of my skin give it away.
I was turned down for offers even when I first joined, so I wonder if that will happen more often and eventually no one will want to see me anymore…
I wonder which will come first: that, or losing my function?
Sometimes I find myself wondering how everyone else feels about this(笑)
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a columnist.
I’m currently in a stable phase with my monthly arrangement, so I haven’t made any offers for about six months.
It’s a club with plenty to offer men, so I’m not planning to quit anytime soon.
But if it stops functioning properly, I probably will.
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
There are plenty of men who stop making offers to new women once they find someone they really like. Wouldn’t that count as quitting?
If you mean giving up relationships with sugar babies altogether, I don’t think that’s possible as long as they still have sexual desires.
Other
I’m Osaka, a male member.
I’ve felt empty about it temporarily and thought about quitting, sure. But when I’m having fun, I forget all about that lol.
That said, people may have to quit because of their health, finances, or lack of time—or because a relationship really took a toll on them. There’s no point dwelling on it, though.
Why leave 0.002%? lol
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I'm Flagmaker, a column writer.
I briefly thought about quitting, but after going just one week without masturbating, my sex drive came back and so did my motivation.
Sexual desire really is incredibly powerful. Seriously.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I think it’s possible.
I’ve already been tamed by my favorite, so I don’t make many offers anymore.
Though, now that I’ve written that, what exactly does “quitting papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)” mean? Does it mean dating just one person? Or does it mean stopping allowance-based relationships altogether?
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
It might be around 98%—either I’ll get married or become impotent.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
The “Flag Maker” who may be sharing a woman with me might be retiring from papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). His next column is an absolute must-read!!
I’ve made some major mistakes in the past and have thought about retiring. There was also another huge incident that pushed me to the point where I had no choice but to quit.
I imagine more people have thought about quitting than those who haven’t.
Most papas carry at least some guilt, so I feel like there are probably more papas who have never once thought about quitting.
—Loser Guy
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
Since everyone wants different things from papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), it’s possible.