I’m Dai, a male member.
I’ve never really thought about what I get bored with first.
Looks and body shape are definitely the first things I get tired of.
As for sex, I lose interest once I feel like I’ve done everything there is to do. Women who respond enthusiastically are the ones I’m least likely to get bored with.
That said, no matter how attractive a woman is or how good the sex is, I can’t keep seeing someone with an unpleasant personality.
If she has a good personality, I feel like I’m least likely to get bored with her.
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I have a pretty broad range when it comes to personality, so my priorities are:
1. Sex
2. Looks
3. Personality (inner qualities)
Even if she has a bad personality, I wouldn’t break up with her as long as she’s cute and the sex is amazing.
All I have to do is put up with her bad personality, so it doesn’t bother me at all. If she’s enthusiastic in bed, there’s absolutely no problem.
That said, if she has both a bad personality and unattractive looks, but the sex is amazing, that’s still a no. Looks matter too.
Not that it really matters, but why did you leave out “figure”?
My favorite girl has an amazing figure.
The other respondents say they prioritize inner qualities, but I hope you’re not misreading the context.
They’re presumably saying, “I prioritize personality”—once the sex and looks meet their standards. Kind of like Maslow’s hierarchy of needs.
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I’m Taro, a male member.
What I get tired of is the inner side of a person. More precisely, it’s when their personality is lacking.
Even if she’s attractive and great in bed, I’ll lose interest if there’s nothing beneath the surface.
If I had to choose between looks and sex, I lose interest in looks sooner—after just two or three dates. Sex lasts a little longer, but in my case, six months at most.
By the way, I thought Kazu and Mac gave the same answer. Am I missing something? I used to be confident in my logic, but now that confidence is wavering (pretty fragile, huh? lol).
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I think people get bored because of a lack of depth in their personality. Great sex can sometimes make up for that, but looks can’t.
I think every man has different values.
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