Do you think it’s important for someone of the opposite sex to tell you that you’re cute?
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I’m naturally happier with someone who tells me I’m cute than someone who doesn’t, but I can’t help wondering whether they’re only focused on appearance, get bored easily, or are the type to drop people quickly.
What do you think…?
I’m Fuu, a columnist.
When we’re alone, I’m constantly telling her how cute she is.
Looks matter, but personality matters too.
And physical chemistry matters even more.
I’m more often the one getting dropped than the one doing the dropping.
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I’m Saito, a column writer♪
A woman once told me, “When someone tells you you’re beautiful, you really do become more beautiful, so say it more often.”
So whenever I think it, I try to say it.
You can become “cute” with a little effort.
But being “beautiful” takes hard work.
That’s why I’m not all that interested in being cute.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
Whether or not he says it out loud depends on things like whether he’s shy or has a strong desire to make the woman feel good—it doesn’t necessarily reflect whether he actually finds her cute.
Whether he’s the type to get bored easily is a completely separate issue.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t know if this is important, but I only compliment the appearance of women I’m still seeing.
That’s the opposite of what you think.
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Japanese men tend not to be very expressive, so it’s more common for them not to say things out loud—the ones who do are the exception.
Of course, it’s nice to hear compliments regularly, but when a man who usually keeps his thoughts to himself gives you a little compliment, that can be especially嬉しい in its own way.
Just because he expresses his compliments doesn’t necessarily mean he only cares about looks or gets bored easily. You’ll have to figure out what kind of person he is as you get to know him.
Marika
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here, too.
I don’t think calling someone cute necessarily means they place a strong emphasis on looks.
They may mean that you’re cute overall, including your personality, or they may simply be flattering you.
“If it’s just flattery, then why would they go on dates with me?”
Well, someone can still be your type even if you’re not conventionally cute, and some people prioritize personality over appearance.
Still, I think it’s better for both of you if the other person feels good, so I’d probably offer a little flattery too.
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