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Nov 2, 2021 22:46
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What do you do for yourself?
I’ve been through something difficult and want to do something to comfort myself.
7 answers
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
My favorite way to treat myself is by enjoying some delicious Japanese sake.
Other
I’m Nana Ayase ♡
For me, I’d probably go take a classical ballet lesson,
play golf, or get an oil massage and a head spa.
I’m missing one lumbar vertebra and have one extra cervical vertebra,
so my neck and lower back get really painful (lol).
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
I’m going to enjoy all-you-can-eat solo yakiniku at an inexpensive barbecue chain.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Today, I finally signed a contract with a male specialist in a certain field whom I’d been pursuing for about five years, and welcomed him onto my team.
It’s the ultimate luxury—and a reward to myself.
I was also able to sign an exceptionally talented person in April, so business is absolutely booming this year. I’m over the moon♡
A Loser Guy
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
I’ve never really treated myself as a reward before. I’ve never done anything like pampering or healing myself, either. I don’t think anything good comes from spoiling yourself.
When something tough happens, I just sleep as much as I can. Sleeping helps me recover from the fatigue, and my emotions feel more manageable too.
If something difficult happened at work, I deal with it through work. If a man treated me badly, I get over it through another man, I suppose. For example, if I had a bad experience with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I feel like all I’d have to do is find a better papa (a male supporter) or boyfriend.
Other
I bought myself a watch when I graduated from graduate school.
I had planned to buy a Birkin when I turned 40, but by the time I actually reached 40, I no longer wanted one, so I didn’t.
Rewards are something you buy when something good happens or when you accomplish something.
Whenever something bad or painful happened, I focused on moving my body. I’d go running without music or hit the gym five or six days a week.
Whether it’s work, a hobby, or anything else, I think it’s best to immerse yourself in something so completely that you can forget what’s troubling you.
Marika
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
My way of rewarding myself might be taking a trip with someone I’m seeing. In the past, I used to go to cigar bars to enjoy fine drinks and cigars.
Ah, whenever things got tough, I’d work, just like Mac. For me, a reward to myself was something I’d do after successfully getting an important job done.