What does it mean to have feelings like a father?

I’m Shingo Lee (Shingori), a column writer. Rather than focusing on the literal meaning of the words, I think it’s better to look at it through subtraction. When a man has sex with someone while thinking, “I can only see her as my little sister” or “She’s like a daughter to me,” I think it means she has become important to him, but he feels there are obstacles to spending the rest of his life with her. “Woman I want to spend the rest of my life with” − “want to spend the rest of my life with” = daughter or little sister That’s the formula.

> If he truly has paternal feelings, I think he should give her money without having sex with her. If that’s what you’re saying, then have him act like a father—take her out to eat, buy her practical clothes, or pay her tuition. Don’t accept money itself. This isn’t a place to look for a substitute father. Marika Wait, is this question from a man?

I’m Nana Ayase ♡ Thinking of your papa (a male supporter) as your father? I’ve never thought of him that way. If you do, you should probably stop. It’ll drive you crazy.

It’s hypocrisy. Fake love. The questioner is absolutely right. There’s no room for argument. Even though I’m seeking an intimate relationship, for some reason I also feel like doing fatherly things for her. If I knew why, I wouldn’t have such a hard time explaining it. Just as there’s no particular reason why someone likes fishing or fashion, I don’t really know why, but I’ve developed these fatherly feelings. Anyway, I’m worried about the future of the woman I’m seeing. I’m obviously going to die before she does, after all. I’m making preparations so she’ll be okay even after I’m gone. I describe that as fatherly feelings, but it’s definitely an act of hypocrisy—and probably just self-justification. That said, I’ll continue supporting my “ace” even after she gets married and we’re no longer in an adult relationship (intimate). Since I’ve been using company money, I’ll keep putting money aside without telling her. That’s hypocrisy too. Make-Otoko @ Doing hypocrisy is better than not doing good at all P.S. To Marika: The questioner is a woman who’s anti-Make-Otoko. You can tell in a split second. I think she was trying to bait me, but Mack ended up taking the bait instead, so now she’s panicking lol.