There’s a ton you can do—get seriously ripped, build a defined waist, sculpt a demon’s face into your back, and so on. Weight training is free, after all.
Personally, the thing I’m most particular about is my toenails.
Isn’t the essence of being a papa to care obsessively about your hygiene and grooming, even in places someone may only see a few times in their entire life?
At the very least, please go to a nail salon and keep your fingernails glossy and immaculate. Women pay very close attention to men’s hands.
We’re basically filth, so we should do absolutely everything we can.
—A losing man
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
More importantly, you should focus on becoming a man women are attracted to, don’t you think? And make women happy.
Otherwise, neither side can truly enjoy themselves...
If all you have are those two ideas, you’ll end up reinforcing the very complaint women who join these clubs often have: “He thinks money can buy him anything.” (The worst...)
The thing about these clubs is that both men and women can easily achieve their goals through money. That’s precisely why non-monetary qualities can be considered even more valuable.
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I’m Osaka, a male member.
I don’t think I’m capable of giving an answer that would really satisfy you (T_T). Though the very idea of being that self-assured is probably a bit dangerous too, lol. That’s about the only kind of advice I can offer. Sorry (T_T)
On the other hand, if I sensed that a woman thought having a papa was a piece of cake, I’d start questioning my own reason for meeting her, too.
Since relationships are between human beings, I think there’s always that inherent difficulty—and the tension of knowing things can change or fall apart in an instant. That's just how it is, I guess.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
For the men, I’d first recommend paying attention to your overall grooming—especially bad breath and skin blemishes.
Beyond that, I think it’s important to observe carefully and offer women what they’re looking for, so you don’t miss their needs. papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is almost the same as sales, after all.
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I’m BB7.
“Pay me more” and “offer a higher allowance” only work with women who are motivated by money and looking for a transactional relationship.
They don’t come up much here, but there are plenty of female members who aren’t like that.
No matter how much money you offer, they won’t give a man the time of day if they’re not attracted to him.
So the answer is:
- Don’t be pushy.
- Don’t get too invested.
- Don’t treat her like an object.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
Haha（笑）
You’ve hit the nail on the head（笑）
Of course. This is a Q&A forum for dating clubs.
If the club earns good money and prepares generous allowances, many attractive women will join.
When there are more attractive women, members will want to make more offers, and the club’s business will thrive.
With that in mind, I think it’s best to understand how things work and carefully consider how you want to participate.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Please ask your partner about it.
Why not try facing them more directly?
It’s probably best not to try to change them.
These are the three things that immediately came to mind.
I don’t think paying an allowance gives you the right to do whatever you want.
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