Is there any way to win over women who never contact me?
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I’m starting to feel pretty empty because none of them ever reach out unless I do first…
They’ll meet me if I invite them, but I can’t help feeling like I’m completely irrelevant to them. It brings me to tears.
Maybe it’s because I’m making offers to beautiful women who seem popular…
Ladies, I know it’s all about the money, but us older guys would be happy if you reached out once in a while.
I’m columnist Shingo Lee (Shingori).
It’s only natural.
If money is the only thing you have to offer and you have nowhere else to turn—meaning no other women—then there’s no reason for a woman to spend her valuable resource, her time, on you.
Work on becoming more attractive.
Learn how to provide an enjoyable experience.
Do that, and women will come to you even without you paying them.
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Seattle,
Since the word “ace” is so unpopular, I’m a little depressed as a sore loser of a man, wondering if I really have to use a 20-word phrase like “the woman I value most among the women I’m seeing” instead of the simple three-letter term.
The woman I value most among the women I’m seeing works out to 50 on a pay-per-meeting basis, but emotionally, as you said, it may feel more like 28.
The woman from last night—who isn’t the one I value most among the women I’m seeing—was 1● pay-per-meeting, but it felt like about 20, so I’m now wondering whether to continue seeing her.
※ Isn’t this getting a little long? Calling her a “keeper” would just anger people all over again… That said, I also hate the word “mistress.” I don’t mind at all if a woman calls me an ATM, but I don’t really like describing the women I’m seeing as mistresses.
The value of money is a strange thing, isn’t it?
It gives me chills to think that the women receiving it may feel that my allowance is worth only about 3 to them. m(｡>__<｡)m
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I’m Fuu, a columnist.
As you’ve already figured out, if you look for women who seem less popular and therefore less likely to receive offers, you may be able to get what you’re hoping for.
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I’m BB7.
On the other hand, doesn’t it feel a little like you’re just an ATM when a woman contacts you too often? Isn’t it possible that being someone she doesn’t care much about is actually the right balance?
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I’m Aya, a female member.
If you offer an attractive, popular woman only an average allowance, that’s bound to happen—as you already realize.
Why would she go out of her way to please an older man who only gives an average allowance? That’s probably how she sees it.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office will answer this too.
If you give her the highest allowance—more than any other man—she’ll probably contact you more and more.
I don’t know why, but many men seem to want things to work out without increasing the allowance.
It’s like asking, “Is there any way to get from Tokyo to Osaka in two and a half hours?”
“Sure, take the bullet train.”
“I don’t want to pay for the bullet train. What about flying?”
“Flights are expensive.”
That’s how it comes across.
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I’m in Seattle.
If you offer 280,000 yen pay-per-meeting, she’ll be happy to get in touch with you. Didn’t “Makeo-sensei” say his ace was 280,000 yen?
If she’s a popular girl, isn’t it enough just to get her to meet you? You might have a chance if you can entertain her in a short amount of time.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
The best approach is to take it easy.
Once you accept that messages probably won’t come, you’ll occasionally hear from someone.
That’s just how it is, I think.
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I’m Hikoki, a male member.
> I’m starting to feel empty because none of the women ever contact me unless I reach out first…
Um, if you don’t look genuinely happy when you’re together, they’re not going to contact you first.
With that attitude, you’re in no position to make them happy. You’re being way too needy—you need to let go of that childish way of thinking.
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I’m Basil, a male member.
I don’t mind if she’s the one who reaches out and invites me. It’s actually easier for me than dealing with frequent messages.
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